Owning a Tiktok channel with over 1 million followers, Nhu Foxie (born 1998) is one of the most influential online figures in the beauty industry. Seeing Nhu’s “transforming” clips, gorgeous makeup and youthful style, few would have thought that her friend, 9X, is married to a Western husband over 16 and has a beautiful 4 year old son – baby, Danny.
Mother of a beautiful and attractive child.
As a mother in her twenties, Nhu has faced many hardships, from economic to spiritual. Even so, the little 9X has always been a strong support for his son. Like starting to build his career when his son was still red, holding him while practicing making videos. The current result is “sweet fruit” for the constant efforts of the young mother.
Home of a Vietnamese and Western couple.
Work hard to raise kids in Thailand, save every penny
Nhu and her foreign husband met while 9X was working at a bar. The love story starts from the misunderstanding of “bad crying and laughing”, which is also fate for the two to know each other. As stated: “The first time he went to the store drunk, he even tried to steal money due to wrong inertia. So I rolled up my sleeves and ran to “collect the debt” to help the shop, unfortunately he’s been in love with me ever since (laughs). It’s quite long, but it’s like hating what God gave me, I have to say I really hate him. But he still goes to bars to drink. Then he says he wants to take care of his life.”
The couple has a 16 year age difference and a sizeable appearance difference. Nhu’s husband is 1m86 tall, while he is quite short and weighs only 38kg. They find similarities in their souls and personalities, as they feel for themselves, both are strong personalities. Maybe that’s why this couple often disagree.
As said, at the time it seemed to be “everyone’s way”, she discovered that she had a baby. “At that time, I thought about becoming a single mother, raising children alone,” 9X confessed. It was her husband Nhu who persuaded her, wanting to share the responsibility of raising children whether the two continued to love or not. With that sincerity, Nhu decided to get married and start a family with her husband.
When their son was only a few months old, Nhu and his wife went to Thailand to set up a business. It was a challenging time that the young mother will always remember. At that time, Nhu’s husband worked as a marketer, and he stayed home to take care of the children. Without relatives to support, her husband is busy, Nhu always feels guilty and lonely. The economic situation is also very difficult.
“My husband and I used to keep every penny in a paper bag so we could retrieve it when needed. At that time, I only had one pleasure, which was to spend a few dong from time to time to buy milk tea. at the convenience store. But one time he told me to spend extravagantly, why didn’t I save to buy food. I felt very hurt, threw the money bag back, because it was a coin, it made a “shovel” sound. I saw it, I laughed out loud. So husband and wife don’t fight anymore. I still remember our children’s laughter back then and the situation of having to save every penny like that.” As believed.
Take care of kids while recording and editing videos, be a hot Tiktoker
After about 6 months in Thailand, Nhu and her husband decided to return to Vietnam. Her husband received an inheritance, and the mother of one began learning to make videos. It is also a new beginning, helping Nhu find the ideal job, bringing him success and fame.
“When I was in Thailand, I couldn’t watch TikTok in Vietnam. When I returned to my country, I tried surfing and saw that people used to make English teaching clips, but almost no Thai teaching clips. I went to Thailand, I also studied. I have to create a little Thai content. However, I have no professional knowledge, but only use general communication. I’m constantly researching and trying all kinds of different content.” As told.
In about a year, Nhu built her Tiktok channel from scratch while taking care of her children. Towards Danny’s 2nd birthday, 9X’s mom started receiving the first advertisement invitations and attracted a lot of people. Thief, son of Nhu is very obedient, he shows interest when his mother makes a “transforming” makeup clip and is not too fussy when his mother is filming. As always, take your child to the studio, taking advantage of the afternoon or evening when your child is asleep for work.
At first, Nhu and his wife also faced difficulties when they became parents for the first time, especially the conflict in raising children. As mentioned, her husband attends child protection school, and she wants her children to develop naturally, stumbling a bit to grow strong. After becoming a mother, Nhu felt guilty about her own body, did not want to be close to her husband and asked him to help take care of the children.
The two gradually find a common voice in raising children, sympathizing and understanding each other better. In her role as a mother, Nhu is actively learning methods that benefit her son such as self-weaning, coaching Danny in order, and listening to him for the right parenting style. Baby Danny is always commented on as submissive and wary.
As a mother from an early age, Nhu experienced periods of self-doubt, feeling regret that she had missed the golden age of her career development. Finally, 9X recovered quickly, feeling happy with his new job. As revealed: “When I became an early mother, I had to have a strong spirit. When I was raising a child, there were a lot of words that came out and was said because I was so young. I have to believe in myself, do the right thing. and do your best. It’s okay for you. Try it because you are completely mine.”
A mother in her twenties takes good care of her children, and at the same time tries to develop the work she loves.
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