After the girl accused the dean of the Faculty of Rape Law: What to do not to become a victim of rape?

In Vietnam in general, there are still cases of women being raped, even taking advantage of “rape incidents” to be harmed many times later, even gang rape. However, not all victims dare to speak up to defend themselves.

That is shared by Master of Psychology Ha Thai Huong (Hanoi Pedagogical University). Explaining that the victim did not dare to speak up about his story, this expert said that many victims still have the mentality of hiding such secret things for fear of affecting their honor…

Many people have been sexually assaulted, but most of them only know how to suffer silently because of the psychological guilt, fear of market discord, only when the matter reaches the climax, beyond the limit of the victim’s tolerance, they dare to go up. language.

“I used to give psychological treatment to women who were victims of blackmail and they said that between the line of silence and spoiling everything, the victims choose to stay silent because they don’t want their pain. exposed for others to gossip about.

But in my opinion, the victim needs to boldly speak up before this problem so that there are no other women who are victims like me,” said expert Ha Thai Huong.

What do women do to not become a victim of rape?

Many women who are victims of rape have a gullible mentality, so they are easily taken advantage of, in many cases are young girls who lack the attention of their families, lack of knowledge about self-protection. easily seduced.

Many women who are victims of rape have a gullible mentality, so they are easily taken advantage of and seduced. Illustration

“Many painful rape cases happened, and when I found out, I found out that the victim put himself in situations that easily give rise to crimes such as dressing provocatively, using stimulants, drinking alcohol leading to loss of life. controlling yourself or being given aphrodisiacs by someone you trust without knowing…

Therefore, in all relationships, women should choose and consider when playing with friends of the opposite sex, do not place excessive trust in friends of the opposite sex, and especially be on high alert when in private places. like a pub or a hotel, especially don’t put yourself in a state of loss of control and self-control.

When unfortunately being a victim of rape, the victim should immediately report it to the police and pay special attention to keeping the traces because only when there is enough evidence, the victim can report the crime and bring the “evil” to the law, “expert Ha Thai Huong said.

According to this expert, the psychology of rape victims is extremely important, many people who lack control may choose death to end their lives, so in all circumstances, families need to is a reliable support for the victim, accompanying the victim in the journey to bring the “evil” names out to punish according to the provisions of the law, rather than rejecting and blaming the victim.

On the other hand, the authorities, when receiving rape cases, need to promptly and strictly investigate and handle rape crimes to give victims confidence that they will be protected.

In addition, the Women’s Union needs to uphold its role in protecting rape victims, proactively propagandizing for women to recognize the risks, and prevent possible cases of abuse….

Previously, Mr. LMT (Chairman of the Board of Directors of a general hospital in Hanoi, Dean of a Faculty of a Hanoi University) was “accused” of beating and raping a young girl many times, causing public uproar.

According to the application Ms. H. sent to the authorities, she knew Mr. T. because she was a colleague and student of her mother. After graduating from university, Ms. H. was invited by Mr. T. (according to the application, Mr. T. is the Chairman of the Board of Directors of a general hospital in Hanoi and the Dean of a famous university in Hanoi) invited to join the university. At the hospital, Mr. T holds the position of Chairman of the Board of Directors and promises to guide and guide Ms. H. in her work. Believing that Mr. T is a good person, Ms. H. agreed to work for Mr. T.

After returning to the hospital to work, Ms. H. accused Mr. T. even though she had a wife and children, she still solicited her to have sex and was rejected by her. During a trip, Mr. T. drank alcohol and raped Ms. H.

According to the denunciation, after being raped, Mr. T. used all tricks to force Ms. H. into an informal relationship and threatened to release a hot clip if not approved.

Also according to the denunciation, every time Ms. H. refused to have sex, Mr. T. threatened and terrorized to achieve the goal. Notably, each time he had sex, Mr. T forced Ms. H. to play many roles, even asking for a collective relationship…

Many times of unsuccessful resistance, fear of affecting the honor of herself and Mr. T, so Ms. H. did not speak up. When she was too tired, Ms. H asked to end the illicit relationship but was beaten and threatened by Mr. T.

At the peak on January 26, Mr. T. beat Ms. H. many times and then brought her to the hotel to rape. After the beating, Ms. H’s body was bruised, bleeding, twisted leg, headache, dizziness, nausea… had to go to the hospital to check. In addition, Mr. T. has repeatedly terrorized and threatened to make Ms. H. report to the police where she lives to take measures to protect her.

Hoang Thanh