The husband constantly mocked his wife for being less romantic, when it came time to open the gift box, his wife apologized profusely for forgiveness-Young man –

My husband arrogantly denigrated me enough, when it came time to reveal his false face, he could only bow his head and ask for forgiveness.

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I am 34 years old, have been married for 7 years. I currently have two children, a boy and a girl. In the first 5 years, my husband was the one who loved, worked hard, supported and loved his wife and children with all his heart. I thought I had chosen the right man in my life. Rest assured about my husband, I turned to take good care of my children, so that they would always be healthy and obedient.

Since the birth of the second child, my husband has also been promoted at the company. As the head of the sales department at the company, there are dozens of employees under him. Good income, working as a boss, so my husband’s temperament has changed since then. Often absent from home, burying his head in drinking parties, at home, he did not help his wife and children with anything.

Since then, my husband rarely takes his wife and children to go out, shop or eat at restaurants. Even when my biological parents have a job, he doesn’t come back very often, let me and my children go by themselves.

My husband is getting more and more arrogant by the day, when he comes home, he brings his wife and children to smear and denigrate enough. My husband looked down on his wife, bluntly criticizing me for being clumsy, crude and not knowing how to dress and beautify. Every now and then my husband brings out other women to compare with me.

Why is it that my husband mocks me: “Gives money to his wife but never buys anything for him. Going around just buying chickens and ducks for her husband is done. What is the husband’s hobby and will now? is also ignorant. Living with less romance, the countryside has not changed for many years.”

I was also very sad, because I thought my husband was angry about something, said it to my heart’s content, said to relieve pressure… so I was patient for my children and family. But responding to her husband’s reproaches is like sparking a family conflict. No matter how generous, enthusiastic and thoughtful my husband goes out, when he comes home, the opposite is true.

Then one day, my husband’s fake cover was also exposed. Seeing that my husband had many strange expressions, I tried to find out that he had a girlfriend, a beautiful and stylish young lady. My sister and I went to see her to “hide her face”, she was afraid to say that she married my husband just for money, did not know he was married… She also pledged to cut off relations with my husband, co. He gave me some expensive gifts that my husband had bought for me.

Holding the gift that my husband’s mistress gave me, I immediately brought the souvenir shop to hire them to wrap it beautifully to bring back as a surprise gift for my husband. Receiving a gift box from my wife, my husband smiled sarcastically: “Perhaps it’s a perfume or a shampoo bottle? If you don’t know anything, don’t rush to learn how to do it”. I can only answer: “You just open it, it’s very nice and surprising”.

My husband arrogantly opened the gift and laughed sarcastically, when he opened the outer cover and realized some familiar items inside, he suddenly froze. Mouth stuttering: “What is this, why do you have these things?”. I immediately said: “I know it all, you coldly criticize your wife for being less romantic, but then you are so generous with others. I want a divorce”.

My husband apologized profusely, hoping for his forgiveness… Since that day, I have not talked to my husband, even though he clarified and promised not to repeat the offence. Seeing the appearance of my current husband, I was very happy, but then I felt pain because my husband betrayed me. Should I forgive my husband, or get a divorce?

(Hathunguyen@…)