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Waiting for his wife to give birth, husband overheats when a stranger suddenly asks

According to community experience, women who give birth to their first child (or often called their second child) will give birth earlier before their due date and will experience labor that is getting more and more difficult. Scientific evidence also shows this to be true, but not 100%. However, sometimes fully believing in this concept can lead to conflict and misunderstanding in the family like the couple below.

Xiao Zhang (26 years old) and his wife were classmates in college. However, after 2 years of graduation, the two meet again and fall in love. The couple studied and later married with the blessing of both families. Not long after the wedding, Xiao Zhang’s wife was pregnant with her first child, so her excitement was doubled.

Xiao Zhang’s wife’s pregnancy went quite smoothly. A young husband used to worry when he heard from a colleague about his pregnant wife suffering from morning sickness, fatigue and mood swings, becoming difficult to please. However, his wife was not like that, always happily enjoying her pregnancy.

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Xiao Zhang’s wife had always been very confident and happy throughout her pregnancy. (Illustration)

On the day of delivery, due to the impact of the Covid-19 epidemic, Xiao Zhang’s parents could not come to help, only he accompanied his wife to give birth. At first, he was quite flustered but his wife turned to encourage him otherwise, telling him to calm down. She was also very proficient, performing the necessary procedures herself and then entering the delivery room. After about 3 hours, her cervix was fully opened and she was taken to the delivery room. Xiao Zhang impatiently waited for his wife outside. He thought things would be very difficult, but only about 15 minutes later, the nurse announced that his wife had successfully given birth to a son, the baby was skin-to-skin with his mother and in about 30 minutes mother and daughter. will be pushed to the postpartum ward.

Xiao Zhang was very happy to hear that. He immediately called the families on both sides. At this time, a woman of about 50 years old, the mother-in-law who brought her daughter-in-law to give birth, stood and waited with Xiao Zhang to ask her:Your wife must have given birth to a second child, right? Hurry up, love it.” Xiao Zhang immediately explained that this was the couple’s first child. Another woman immediately refuted: “What’s wrong? I can’t compare the pain to just a few hours, 15 minutes to give birth”.

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He turned to his wife suspiciously because he saw that she was giving birth too soon. (Illustration)

Xiao Zhang did not continue to argue with the strange woman, but her words were always in his heart. Come to think of it, his wife is very familiar with pregnant, giving birth, always confident, not confused and surprised like a new mother. The more he thought about it, the more suspicious he became. And as a result, he angered his wife, when she returned to the postpartum room she always looked indifferent and uncomfortable.

Seeing her husband’s strange expression, Xiao Zhang’s wife insisted and she finally said it. “Have you had a baby before, or at least had an abortion? When I entered the delivery room, I waited with several men waiting for other biological wives. They all said that their wives gave birth to their first child and it took a day to give birth. But I just finished it. I see that you have nothing to be ashamed of when you undergo a hospital birth procedure. I tell the truth. Have you ever fallen before going to your brother? I tricked you, didn’t I?”the husband poured the stream.

When Xiao Zhang’s wife heard this, she was both angry and pitied. He didn’t expect that the couple had fallen in love for so many years and then got married, but because of the fast birth, he also doubted it. He just said: “If in doubt, go to the doctor.”

Then they went to see the doctor together. The doctor, after hearing about the problems of the two, immediately turned the blame on the husband: “I don’t understand anything and I’m still speculating. My wife is in good health, moderate weight and also very cooperative during delivery, so she’s very fast. Before giving birth, she went to the hospital for a prenatal checkup. class. hard worker, understands every birth process, so it was very easy for us to deliver the baby. It has nothing to do with giving birth or not giving birth.”

After listening, Xiao Zhang could only lower his head in shame and apologize to him. However, due to this unnecessary misunderstanding, the relationship between the two had also been significantly affected.

In fact, it is true that mothers who have experienced childbirth will find it easier in the future. But if a pregnant woman is lucky enough to have the following characteristics, even giving birth to her first child can take place quickly and with minimal pain.

Mom has a big pelvis

When a pregnant woman has a wide and shallow pelvis, the baby’s ability to pass it during a normal delivery is very easy and smooth. On the other hand, mothers with a narrow, deep pelvis make it more difficult for the baby to come out, leading to a long and tiring birth.

Mother gains weight properly during pregnancy

Not only fetal weight, maternal weight which increases during pregnancy also has a significant effect on birth. For overweight and obese mothers, delivery will be longer and more difficult; In contrast, pregnant women with standard weight will be much easier to give birth and “tough”. Therefore, during pregnancy, the mother should learn a reasonable and scientific diet and practice more appropriate exercise to avoid being overweight.

Mother prepares mentally well, comfortable giving birth

During childbirth, the more relaxed the mother’s spirit, the shorter the delivery time. Too much stress and fear can affect the speed at which the cervix dilates. In addition, some mothers who give birth feel so sick that they often scream. However, this scream often makes the mother tired and loses energy, so that it has an impact on the fetus in the womb.

Favorable fetal position and size

If the fetus is of moderate weight, lying on its right side, the birth of the mother will take place more quickly. On the other hand, if the fetus is too large or in a breech position, has an abnormal placenta, or is a multiple pregnancy, delivery will take longer, and may even require a caesarean section.

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