I trusted my wife so much that I lost everything

The story I write here is more like a confession than looking for a wife. Perhaps only someone who has been in my situation can understand and share the rest of my life with me.

I am going to study since I was 19 years old. The family only cares enough for us to eat and study. I rose up and got a degree like everyone else. Life in Ho Chi Minh City is too hard for a kid like me who is far from home. Growing up, I started a business with many dreams and achieved what I set out to do. I also wish for a happy family and children. When getting married, my opinion is to believe in my wife absolutely from property to affection.

No one thought that my wife and I would get a divorce. Because we are the same age, “lie down and eat”, indeed we have a house, a car… But everything fell apart when the husband and wife’s thoughts became more and more different. My wife went from appreciating my talent to looking down on it. All the money I give to my wife, from the company’s finances to taking care of the family. However, I was turned away by my wife, deceived, brought my children back to hide, not knowing where, when in the South, sometimes in the North, sometimes answering the phone sometimes not.

At this point, everyone asks the question “Why does happiness happen?”. Indeed, our neighbors and relatives all see our potential, happiness, and laughter at home. But in the years of economic recession, I had a hard time doing business, I tightened my grip more, my wife relaxed, didn’t stay by my side to encourage me, I found all kinds of reasons to return to my mother’s side: taking care of her sick grandmother, sick grandfather, etc. dragonfly song”.

Now I have no house, no car, no account. Many people ask why there is no dispute. I am most afraid of parents dispute, hurt children. I would rather take my suitcase and leave so that my children can have a happy childhood, without seeing scenes of parents arguing or being violent.

I just want to find a normal woman. If you have a job, I believe it can help you become stronger. I strongly believe in my ability and have enough trust and love in my family. I am a man who can go to the market, cook or help his wife with everything in the house, regardless of husband or wife’s work.

I am 1.67 m tall, weigh 70 kg, Tan Dau age, write computer software.

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