Guest in the program Chat with mom with milk Episode 124 is Duong Thi Phuong Hang, also known as Trieu Vy – a freelance singer who is quite famous on social networks. He is known for his upbeat and upbeat “instrumental” songs.
Currently, Phuong Hang is a single mother of a 9 year old girl. Journey pregnant and giving birth to Phuong Hang’s only child was so difficult and difficult that the two MCs of the show were in tears.
Phuong Hang is a “music-making saint” known to many on social networks.
She is a single mother with a 9 year old daughter named Trieu An.
Phuong Hang said she found out she was pregnant with her boyfriend when she was just 19 years old. Because her menstrual cycle was always regular, it turned out that her period was 2 weeks late, so I immediately bought a test strip and the results were two clear lines. The first person Phuong Hang told she was pregnant was her boyfriend.
“After I texted my boyfriend came to pick me up from work and talked. The two argued back and forth, but the last sentence he said to me was: “Now if I keep it, we’ll break up and leave. Then I was very confused and didn’t understand why, but only then did I find out that the person has a wife and children and still cheated on me for more than 1 year in love. After that harsh statement, I decided. your back and go, there is no more hope for this man.”Phuong Hang recounted.
Her boyfriend was irresponsible, but Phuong Hang at the age of 19 did not dare to talk about pregnancy with his mother. Since his father had just died at the time, he was afraid that his story would make his mother even more shocked and depressed. So the young mother made the decision to have an abortion.
“If I tell you now, many people will curse me, but I was very young at that time, I have no economic background, I was afraid of social problems and I was afraid that my mother would be sad, so I made that choice. That day I went to the hospital. I did all the tests and the doctor made an appointment to come back for the procedure at 1pm. When I go to work, I go with a friend. He kept holding my hand and said: “Please, don’t give up. I am very busy, I still have many solutions. This is like a warning to me, so I think about it and leave.”Phuong Hang shared.
While pregnant at the age of 19, Phuong Hang had to run away from home to live at a friend’s house.
Decided to stay pregnant, but Phuong Hang still didn’t dare to tell her mother, but only thought that she would run away from home. She stayed at home for about 2 months, when her belly started showing, she took her pregnant belly and left.
“At that time I knew a friend who was a singer by profession. I confessed to her that I was 3 months pregnant, but I didn’t dare tell my family and didn’t know where to go. So he loves me, he said. If you stay at my sister’s house, I will take care of you until you give birth. Hearing that, you are like a drowning person who gets a life jacket, come back and write a letter to his mother saying that he will work far away and then move his clothes to his house. pick it up, take care of it and take care of it.“, said the female singer.
Pregnant but having to go “eating peanuts”, Phuong Hang is very shy, so he doesn’t dare to ask for anything. Even if he only wanted a green mango, he tried to hold it in, not daring to bother anyone anymore. Not only that, even during her pregnancy, she did not go to the antenatal clinic regularly.
“I went to the doctor only once, because I fell off the motorbike and my stomach hit the road, so my sister was very worried, she insisted on getting herself checked. At the time, she was about 5 months pregnant, the doctor said. it didn’t affect anything but my mother was short of amniotic fluid, so she had to work hard to drink a lot of water to make up for the amniotic fluid. My new friend told me: “Grandma, try to drink enough water to balance the amniotic fluid and travel a lot for a vaginal delivery, but I don’t have the money to take care of her. I also understand my situation, so since then I have tried to drink more water. and walked every day expecting a normal delivery, but until I gave birth, I didn’t go to the doctor anymore.“, said Phuong Hang.
On the day of delivery, pregnant women feel pain in their abdomen from 5 am, the pain is uncomfortable and intermittent. So Phuong Hang told his friend and his husband and mother took him to the hospital to give birth. It took him 45 minutes by motorbike to get to the hospital, when he got there, he fell to the floor in pain. The nurse had to help Phuong Hang into the delivery room and check inside. After checking, the nurse was surprised and said to take her to the delivery room. But when asked for letters, he said he had nothing, his sister’s mother also said she didn’t know where her house was, what her identity was, she just felt sorry for her family who took care of her.
She did not go to the doctor during her pregnancy, but luckily the baby was born healthy.
So Phuong Hang had to wait another 30 minutes to perform the necessary tests. She gave birth naturally quite quickly, only about 15 minutes to complete. And it was then that Phuong Hang found out that she was only 8 and a half months pregnant, the baby was born early and weighed only 2.5kg. Fortunately, the baby is still very healthy.
After giving birth, mother and daughter Phuong Hang returned to a friend’s house to stay. Currently, she is only thinking about how to get healthy and beautiful so she can sing to earn money for her children. But because she hastily baked salt to warm her stomach and carried heavy things, she suffered from uterine prolapse. Currently, her adoptive mother tells Phuong Hang that she must inform her family of the situation. Listening to his adoptive mother, he texted his sister to let her know. The next day, the birth mother and sister went to a friend’s house to meet Phuong Hang and her newborn granddaughter.
After talking tearfully, listening to everyone’s advice, Phuong Hang agreed to take the baby home to be cared for by his mother. When she returned, she found that her family was also very difficult and needy, and her mother was sad and lonely. So when her daughter was just one month old, Phuong Hang returned to work, combined with online sales to earn money to care for the mother and children. Day by day, family life is getting better because he is more known through social networks.
Phuong Hang and his daughter’s life is stable and much better thanks to his hard work.
At the end of the show, Phuong Hang thanked his friends and family for holding him during her difficult pregnancy. He also regrets that when his own economy was better, his mother died. He promised to make up for all the mistakes he had made that made his mother sad by taking good care of his daughter.
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