Me and him came together when we were students, life was very difficult. Both of them came from strange backgrounds, so they tried their best to study well in order to have a stable job in the future. In the early days of knowing each other, we went to the library to study together. There were many things I didn’t understand, I asked him. He is a very intelligent and talented man. I feel very fond of him not only because of his talent but also his gentle and caring personality.
After graduating from school, because of his good results, it was easier for him to apply for jobs than me. At that time, I only worked in a small company office to gain experience. On the first day of my paycheck, he invited me to eat. They both lived those days cheerfully, happily, very sweetly.
After the wedding day, we rented a small apartment which is a mini apartment in the city to start a business. (illustration)
Then he said he loved me. That day, I was so happy that I wanted to cry. When he took the bouquet of flowers and gave me the ring, I thought it was just a dream. The two of them were together during the bad days, so they really appreciated this love. I always remind him to try to save, then join hands to buy a house, get married, and take care of his family.
After 3 years of love, the two return to meet their families. Our parents were both sincere people, so seeing our children love each other was very supportive. I myself thank him for always caring, loving and respecting my family members.
After the wedding day, we rented a small apartment which is a mini apartment in the city to start a business. During that time, his job changed every day for good. He used to joke that I was his patron star because as long as I was by his side, he would do whatever he wanted. When you get stuck, just tell me that the next day you have found a solution. I don’t blame him but always give him clear advice.
More than 5 years of marriage, I continue to give him two children. Life is quite rich, so he said that I stay at home to take care of the children because of the thick birth. When my children grow up, go to school, and become strong, I will go to work. Also because I was worried about my children and my husband didn’t feel safe to invest in his career, I tried my best to help him. I stayed home, did the housework, took care of the kids, picked them up from school, and then returned home. It’s said staying home to look after the kids doesn’t have to go to work, but the work is even more hectic and tiring. The house is always a mess, toys that the kids have just cleaned are put on display, so I don’t have the energy to clean them.
At first he didn’t care about it, but as time went on he became more and more annoyed, always wondering about his wife’s mess at home. At night, I am alone with three heads and six arms. From picking up children, going to the market, cooking, cleaning, bathing children, I’m really tired.
I don’t even have time to take care of myself, look I’m fat and shabby even though I was a slim girl with a very pretty figure before. He often criticized me for not knowing how to dress, picking out some clothes at home that were ugly, global, big like a pig, but honestly, fat people don’t need to wear anything. Sometimes when I’m going to wash my hair, I cry, so I put it off. So when I go out to play, I’m afraid to eat because my head hurts.
I don’t even have time to take care of myself, look I’m fat and shabby even though I was a slim girl with a very pretty figure before. (illustration)
As time went on, married life became lighter because I was always at home to take care of the children, and he went to work, having a dignified and elegant position with money. I told him to go out to eat with his friends, he didn’t agree. If there’s a party, he goes alone, making me feel sorry for myself. He said this and that, but I understood that he didn’t like his wife going out with him or because his wife was prettier than me.
Years of marriage, also thanks to me staying at home to look after the kids so that she can be sure in her work that her career goes up like a kite. I also used our savings to buy a car for him to travel and express himself. But he couldn’t think of those things.
The day before his second 6th wedding anniversary yesterday, I told him to throw a party to invite his relatives to a restaurant for a meal, but he didn’t agree. I told him that again when the couple came home to celebrate, he nodded. But I said he was busy because he was going to a party with his boss. I don’t know how true that is and I don’t care because I’m so disappointed and sad.
Because I wanted your boss to know that today is your wedding anniversary so they can let you go home early, so I took the risk of posting a photo of the couple together on Facebook, “tag” the name.
However, when he got home, he said that I was hard of hearing. He got angry and told me to delete it immediately while many friends saw it and commented. He belittled me for posting bad photos. It’s not you who is ugly, it’s me. He criticized his wife for dressing in the countryside, being fat, standing next to her husband seeing the difference, like him and his grandson, but he also dared to post it.
His insulting words brought tears to my eyes. That’s what you think too much, but the picture isn’t that bad. It was then that he obsessively lowered his wife’s body, thinking that her wife in the kitchen was ugly and untidy. You don’t think I’m like that for who? What are you alone for today?
Sorry, my tears keep flowing. Seeing my two children I was really heartbroken but I decided after a few days of suffering. I signed the divorce papers and put them on the table. Early in the morning waiting for him to wake up, I asked him to sign and didn’t want to say a word. Actually, I was so depressed inside that I no longer wanted to endure the humiliation anymore. I’m your wife, the mother of your children, I’m not a commoner….?
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