The mother mistakenly sent a ‘critic’ message to the teacher in her child’s class group, the principal replied: You should let him drop out of school!

01/04/2022 08:15 GMT+7

In this day and age, communication between teachers and parents is much more convenient. Teachers often set up chat groups to inform parents about their learning, class activities, etc. This gives the parents peace of mind because everything is open and transparent. But the chat group is also the place where many “bad crying and laughing” situations take place because many parents have sent the wrong message.

Recently, a mother (China) discovered that her child’s pants had a large hole after returning from kindergarten. The fatigue in her body, plus the fact that the child’s pants were torn, made her extremely angry. She then composed a long message, saying all the things she was not satisfied with about her child’s teacher. She feels that the teacher is a person who is not careful, negligent in work, does not take good care of the children, etc. But instead of sending it to a close friend, she sends the wrong message to the class group.

Soon after, she discovered the fatal incident and withdrew the message. However, many other parents and teachers read the content. They even took screenshots of their phones and sent them to the Principal.

When he saw the mother’s defamatory message, the principal immediately called to discuss:

It turned out that before that, the mother was always dissatisfied with her child’s school and teachers. But instead of giving honest feedback, he chose to set up a chat group with a few parents to relieve his frustration. This is an unwise way to adversely affect the child’s development.

Things parents should do when they see their child having problems at school

1. Find out the cause of the incident carefully

When seeing their children have problems, many parents often get angry, going to the school to ask the teacher for an explanation. In fact, this does not solve the problem, but only makes the conflict between teachers and parents become serious.

The best way at this time is to ask your child to understand everything. After that, new parents contact the teacher to verify and give appropriate handling.

2.Parents should communicate regularly with their child’s teacher

In fact, conflicts between parents and teachers are often caused by ineffective interactions. If parents communicate in time, it will avoid conflicts and bad problems related to children. When picking up their children from school, parents should ask the teachers about their children’s learning and playing during the day.

3. Soothe the mood when the child has a problem

It is common for children to go to school to have their clothes torn, fall or lose their school supplies. If the level of the incident is not too serious, parents should find ways to help calm the child’s mood.

Many parents who see their children cry are often “very angry”, blaming the teacher. In fact, sometimes the fault comes from the kids. So, help your child stabilize his emotions, then find out the cause and come up with a reasonable solution.

4. Absolutely no tolerance for your child’s misbehavior

If the mistake comes from the child, parents should strictly explain so that the child realizes the problem. In case the child makes a serious mistake, parents should apply discipline. Parents should not cover up bad behavior because it will make their children become bossy, always thinking of themselves as the best.

Parents and teachers both want children to develop well both physically and intellectually. To do this, parents should sympathize with teachers’ difficulties. On the contrary, teachers also need to pay attention to how to communicate with parents to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts.

According to phapluat.suckhoedoisong.vn