After a passionate moment, my lover revealed a shocking story that made me crazy
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Dear Sunflower,
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. Although the time was short, I felt very much in love with him. I always think about him and want to live with him for the rest of my life. Unexpectedly, the person I loved the most gave me a heavy shock.
On Saturday, after salty moment, the boyfriend suddenly sadly whispered a shocking story. He said his “private area” has strange phenomena, I don’t know if it is a disease? I asked him if he had gone “dirty” somewhere? The boyfriend hesitated for a while before he told him that he had a habit of “peeling the cake to pay”. There was a time when he was so drunk, he didn’t seem to use “protective gear”.
Hearing that, I was afraid to push my lover away and then angrily put my clothes back on, rush to the hospital right in the night. But when I got to the hospital gate, I didn’t dare to enter. I am afraid of humiliation, afraid of being watched and discussed.
These days, I live in fear. I don’t know how to deal with this? Unfortunately, I have a sexually transmitted disease, how can I live with people? (ngoctuan…@gmail.com)
Hello,
Sunflower feels your anxiety and fear. This is normal psychology when people are faced with a difficult, complex problem. But the more you fear, the more tired you are and the more you struggle in a circle with no way out. Be calm, relax your mind, take deep breaths to stabilize your emotions.
The most important thing at this time is that you should arrange a time, quickly go to the hospital for examination as soon as possible. Worrying but not daring to face it, not finding a solution only makes the situation worse. If you keep worrying about how people look at you, you will bring yourself more disadvantage.
In addition, you should also advise your lover to go for medical examination and treatment. You should also consider this relationship when he has very bad habits, strongly affecting love and marriage. No one will like their husband to have sex with other women. Love but you also have to be alert and lucid so as not to get hurt.
Love.
Sunflower.
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