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Don’t force the living to the end

The heartbreaking truth takes place on April 1st day of the Lies. After the death of the male student who committed suicide, social networks have not stopped spreading and spreading the clip recording the heartbreaking scene and the suicide note. In addition to grief, condolences to the family of many comments are addressed to the relatives of the victims.

There is no greater pain than losing a child. Today, netizens are still mourning his passing, but tomorrow, the pain will only stay with close relatives. No parent prepares for the death of their child. Losing it was a pain they might not be able to handle for the rest of their lives, could only try to learn to live together.

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Blaming now cannot bring the dead back to life, but only adds to the pain of the living. Those who watched the clip with a suicide note could not figure out the specifics of the situation. And by observing from another perspective, not fully understanding, it’s easier to get heavy words out. They do not know that spreading such an image has such a huge impact on the souls of loved ones who have suffered a great loss.

How sadness can be healed when everywhere sharing photos of the deceased. The parents of a boy who quit at the age of 16 will forever be haunted by the question “Why did you leave your parents?” The little baby knows when to forget those haunting memories. There are many cases where people stay because they can’t cope with the pain and choose to leave.

“Father is not only born to be a father, he is also a father for the first time.”

On social networks, there is a lot of blame, blame, judgment on fathers and mothers for not understanding their children. There are no tears flowing back, every parent does not want the best for their children. However, if their childhood was usually rice fields with bamboo forts in the village, gathering together to play catch during the day, the world of children is now a wall with televisions and smartphones. They are also first-time mothers and fathers, it is difficult to avoid being surprised.

There are things that to adults seem childish trifles, but to children they are a big deal. When there is no way to let it go, no one to trust, and no skills to deal with, it can lead to heartbreak. In the past two years, the impact of the epidemic has made their world even more narrow, in the room next to the computer has made the psychological world of children even more complicated.

Sharing, empathy, and understanding are important, but not easy. Parents may not expect their children to be grandparents, but want their children to have a better future plus the psycho-physiological problems of adolescence are not visible to the child.

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Not only that, sharing and distributing clips with pictures and suicide letters can have a negative influence on children who do not have proper consciousness. Sharing suicide clips is very dangerous, which can trigger the phenomenon of artificial suicide. A child in a similar situation may not actually be aware of this and lead to the same heartbreaking outcome. Instead of looking for ways to vent and share with parents, friends or teachers, children can follow, imitate, and think that is the path to liberation.

According to data from the 2nd National Survey of Youth and Youth in Vietnam (organized by the Ministry of Health, General Statistics Office, WHO in 2000), there are 409 people per 10,000 youth in 63 provinces. survey (accounting for 4.1%) had attempted suicide. This is truly an alarm bell about a matter not to be trifled with.

Instead of spreading pictures of the heartbreaking incident, take it as a warning, a lesson. Every child needs to be better equipped with skills in managing emotions, solving problems; dare to share and confide in people they trust; Build a positive attitude every day…

Every parent should be more understanding, tolerant, and respectful of their child’s world rather than forcing the idea that it is what is best for their child. Strong bonds between family members, a sense of security will help children realize their own worth, understand that they are not alone.

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