Husband is extremely jealous, wife is stuck: “It happened, now what? Divorce”

Being questioned by her husband all day, Mai Hoa patiently endured and tried to avoid her husband thanks to business trips and excuses to go to a close friend’s house to sleep, but in the end things got worse.

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Mai Hoa and Hoang Khai love each other for 5 years before getting married, so in the eyes of outsiders, the relationship between the two is very deep, they are a couple who understand each other and will definitely be happy.

But actually, despite having been in love for 5 years, there are still things that make the two often quarrel. What Mai Hoa cannot ignore in Hoang Khai is his skepticism.

Since the two people fell in love, whenever there was something that could not be explained clearly, Hoang Khai thought a lot. And once he thinks too much, he gets angry. After that, Mai Hoa had to explain again, and Hoang Khai was deliberately cold war, so that Mai Hoa must know her fault.

This feeling of being suppressed really makes Mai Hoa unhappy, because she always thinks that in a relationship, two people should have equality. She trusts Hoang Khai, so he should trust her too. Once they understand each other, there is nothing to explain.

Hoang Khai said that the two people should be frank about everything, only when everything is clearly explained will there be no conflict between the two.

It is because of this difference of perception that the two often quarrel. After that, Mai Hoa actively accepted to be softer and reported everything to Hoang Khai. Hoang Khai also learned to control his temper and change his preference for coldness and violence.

Because of that, Mai Hoa did not choose to part with Hoang Khai but decided to get married.

Stressful life after marriage

After getting married, Hoang Khai seems to have reverted to being overly suspicious. Sometimes Mai Hoa gets out of work late, says a few words to male colleagues, her husband interrogates his wife, even saying that she is not good.

Once, while Mai Hoa was sleeping, Hoang Khai secretly deleted all the men’s names in his wife’s phone book, mistakenly deleting the number of his father-in-law. It was also because her biological father’s number disappeared from the phonebook that Mai Hoa discovered this.

When she asked Hoang Khai, he did not feel that he had done anything wrong: “I think that after getting married, you should keep your distance from the opposite sex. What did I do wrong? I deleted it, so you know the gender. term”.

Hoang Khai really did a great job. Except for work and relatives, he hardly talked to other women, but Mai Hoa felt that this made her a little stifled.

After this incident, Mai Hoa felt that she and her husband had some points of inability to communicate. She did not want to go home to face her grumpy and suspicious husband, so she often worked overtime or found an excuse to go to a close friend’s house to sleep.

Start not coming home

The fact that Mai Hoa often works overtime and doesn’t come home at night makes Hoang Khai’s problem more serious, his personality is also more extreme. Hoang Khai often calls Mai Hoa’s best friend to ask where she is and what she is doing. Mai Hoa’s best friend is very upset, so Mai Hoa feels the need to talk to her husband:

– “What’s going on with you? You’ve never been like this before? What have I really done to you?”.

– “What nonsense are you talking about? It’s just that I didn’t know before, in fact, I’ve always been like that. I also accepted it, so we got married.”

But now Mai Hoa really can’t stand it anymore. She didn’t think there was anything wrong with her, her husband was too extreme. After this, Mai Hoa asked to go on a business trip for 2 days and 1 night. The company was willing to give this job to her along with two other colleagues – a man and a woman, and she could avoid having to go home to her husband.

The trip made Mai Hoa’s mood better. But there was a little problem. The female colleague’s child suddenly had a high fever and had to be hospitalized, so that same night she flew home, leaving the rest for Mai Hoa and her male colleague to handle. The next day, when the mission was completed, Mai Hoa and her male colleague also flew back. What she did not expect was that Hoang Khai went to the airport to pick up his wife and saw her happily come out, chatting with a man on the “only two” trip.

Immediately, he rudely pulled Mai Hoa’s hand back in her embarrassment and shame with her colleagues.

As soon as he entered the house, Hoang Khai immediately questioned his wife. Mai Hoa’s original good mood was completely destroyed. Seeing her husband’s expression and hearing the accusations, Mai Hoa felt that she no longer wanted to explain. She coldly said: “It happened. Now what? Divorce”.

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If you’re in love, you can’t help but be jealous. Normal couples will be a bit wary of their spouse’s friends of the opposite sex, which is also acceptable. But jealousy that leads to extreme actions like Hoang Khai is too extreme, showing a great lack of faith in the opponent and lack of confidence in himself.

Adding a little jealousy just enough to love will make it more lovable, but excessive jealousy leads to rude, grumpy actions that only make the other person suffocate, feeling trapped in the relationship. with you and become disgusted with you. There comes a day when the limit of tolerance is no longer there, they will want to get out.

According to Dan Tri