Why are more and more people choosing to live a “sick” life?-Young people

“Eh” is now becoming a trend among young people as well as divorced women, being single is gradually becoming a normal story.

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Single happiness is a choice towards a comfortable quality of life, happiness in other aspects and life values, in addition to the pleasures of a marriage relationship. So many people choose for themselves a long and possibly forever single life. Because they think:

Have plenty of time for yourself

When single, people will have more time to focus on their personal and professional lives. They don’t want their lives to be controlled. This gives them the opportunity to be more open to new adventures and they actually find themselves happier being single.

They enjoy every minute of their lives, more than the previous generation could say.

The present life is complete

Living alone makes you always enjoy full of interesting things such as traveling, gathering friends, spending time with loved ones…and of course these activities take up most of your time.

This is the reason why you hesitate to enter a new relationship and find a life partner to stick with because you may have to sacrifice the free and comfortable life you have.

Be careful when choosing a life partner

Many people are still constantly looking for a strong relationship to stay together until the end of their lives, but as a result, they still choose to be single because they can’t seem to find a suitable life partner.

Many women choose to be single not because they hate getting married, but on the contrary, because marriage is important to them. In other words, they become more hesitant and careful with choosing a life partner because they are afraid of marriage risks.

Women are increasingly enjoying the feeling of independence

Women like to feel empowered and free. They focus on their career, respect their personal life without sacrificing for love. Getting into a relationship makes them afraid of losing all of that, especially their independence.

Because of this, they will only get married later when they have accomplished their goals and have established a stable career. This is the main reason why the divorce rate has dropped significantly.

Marriage is an invisible burden

It can be seen that the percentage of women working in companies is increasing, but they are always bound by the standards of responsibility of being a wife and mother in the family. In Japanese culture and many other countries, the wife is forced to take care of the children, take care of the house, whether working or just being a housewife, while men are not.

Because of the double standards, women absolutely do not want to get married, instead they want to enjoy the freedom, focus on working and doing the things they like.

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As you get older, single life may be a better option

A study done on people between the ages of 40 and 85 found that their single life is much better.

Although many people don’t believe a woman who’s been single for most of her life says, “I’m fine, but that’s the way it is”. Their mental and physical health is as good as that of married people.

No faith in others

Although there are many great love stories, there are also many love stories with bad endings that make us lose faith in love. This fact can affect your ability to trust, which can make it hard for you to believe what others say or promise.

Or you simply feel that the time we need to get to know someone’s personality, whether they can be trusted or not, seems too long and wasted.

No time for loved ones

Not only because of career or personal interests, a few women choose not to get married because they have to take care of their loved ones (mostly elderly parents). Putting all their effort and time into taking care of their small family but neglecting to take care of their parents is something they cannot do.

Many people think that “just arranging time can still be balanced”, but work, taking care of husband and children, and adding biological parents make them overloaded.

Likes to work alone

In a relationship, you can put in the effort on your own, but there will be more opportunities to do so when you’re single. When you make an effort to develop yourself, it will be easier for you to build a better character, overcome your weaknesses, and become stronger.

When you have no one to think of, you have more time for business ideas, relaxation, and exercise.