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Set fire to your lover’s cousin’s motorbike, a psychological disease

Jealousy has always existed, but in today’s social context, the greater the pressure in life, the more people who can’t stand conflict are also vulnerable.

Recently, there have been many serious cases stemming from love conflicts caused by blind lovers. The most typical is the arson attack that left 1 person dead, 5 injured, in which 1 person is in critical condition in Phu Do ward, Nam Tu Liem district, Hanoi.

Set fire to your lover’s cousin’s motorbike, a psychological disease
Tran Thi Thanh Hai was escorted to the police station

The perpetrator is Tran Thi Thanh Hai (SN 1993, residing in Minh Thuan commune, Vu Ban district, Nam Dinh province). The reason was said by the authorities that Hai was forbidden to love, so he took revenge on his lover’s family.

More frightening, after the functional forces executed an emergency search warrant for Tran Thi Thanh Hai’s residence, the investigators were surprised when this woman’s husband and children were living here.

The couple both live in Nam Dinh, go to Hanoi to work and rent a house in Tay Ho district. During the time living with Hai, the man did not see anything unusual, nor did he know that his wife had an illicit relationship with Chau Viet H.

Tran Thi Thanh Hai’s behavior startled many people because of her recklessness, activism and defiance.

Many people ask why Hai is so crazy just because he is not satisfied with love. Assessing this behavior, psychologist Trinh Hoa Binh believes that the essence is due to jealousy, selfishness and hatred.

“When some people do not satisfy their requirements, they become petty and cruel. In essence, this is not true love but is blind, cruel. A disease in psychology, an inedible way of thinking is overthrown” – Dr. Trinh Hoa Binh said.

Dr. Trinh Hoa Binh emphasized, sick jealousy always exists. However, in the context of today’s society, the greater the pressure in life, the more violent it is for those who are not calm enough, cannot stand conflict.

According to Assoc. Prof-Dr. Phan Thi Mai Huong (Institute of Psychology, Vietnam Academy of Social Sciences), psychological research clearly shows that negative emotions make people uncomfortable and they can use behavior violence to release one’s feelings of anger, frustration, or helplessness. Many times, violent acts are performed to show others the strength and power of the individual.

Besides, many people take revenge on those who have hurt them, but hatred, jealousy, and selfishness are the sparks. In addition, the tendency to win and lose is the reaction of some people, when there is a disagreement they always think that there must be winners, losers, winners and losers.

Another reason leading to this barbaric behavior, Associate Professor-Dr. Phan Thi Mai Huong also said that it was due to lack of standards. When people live without following the standard system (for which the law is the basic), without using social norms as a basis to suppress instincts, it is also easy to commit deviant behaviors.

So the question is how can a person realize that his or her behavior is over the limit, blindly self-correcting?.

Answering this question, expert Trinh Hoa Binh said that “it is very difficult for a person to detect that he is going too far”.

According to Dr. Trinh Hoa Binh, this is related to many things such as education, family culture, living environment, lifestyle… People who lack training, experience, and education should not be in a psychological crisis. know how to handle.

Accordingly, many spontaneous and unpredictable behaviors, do not know when people with such personality will go crazy. But in day-to-day contact, certain limps, certain deviant ways of behaving are inevitably still glimmering.

“I’m sure, people with extreme thinking styles still have some deviant expressions in their daily lives, but people around are not subtle enough to notice. Such people are sure to display many bad behaviors in life. Such behavior certainly cannot be hidden, it is almost instinctive” – Dr. Trinh Hoa Binh emphasized.

Therefore, according to experts, young people need to resolve conflicts in society and relationships need to be resolved through negotiation or through legal intervention. The “revenge” of those who have caused anger or suffering to themselves with violence, deviant behavior deserves condemnation. Even the avenger will face severe penalties of the criminal law.

N. Huyen

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