Being beaten by her husband to tell her father-in-law, did not expect that the daughter-in-law would suffer more harsh words just wanting a divorce

I am 31 years old, married for 7 years. Currently, I have two young children, the eldest is 6 years old and the child is 2 years old. Luckily after get marriedmy wife and I are supported by both sides, so we have our own house.

Family life is also not very rich, because my husband works as an electrician, but also has few works, and his personality is busy playing, so he hardly cares about business.

In the house, everything is taken care of by me, knowing that I do not receive any support from my husband, I work hard to do business, thanks to my hard work, the family is not well off, but it is enough to eat. pepper.

My business is relatively convenient, but I lack the hand to nurture and take care of the family from my husband. So, doing business and looking after children makes me very tired.

My husband spends all day and night drinking, and hanging out with a team of friends to drink, play, and gamble. Often go out late, sometimes come home just to get money, stop flattery to threaten me to give him money to go out, saying that he borrows temporarily to go to work, a few meals will be paid. But I know well that my husband took the money to go out and play and gamble.

A few days ago, my husband asked me to borrow 5 million, I said that the money is only about that, if I give it all, what else can I do.

My husband got angry and yelled at me: “If people open their mouth to borrow, it must be important. Borrowing will be paid back, but not given to a girl, you have to be sure of your husband and children. I borrowed from a high-interest place, you go and pay it. Please?”.

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Saddened by my husband’s thoughts, I began to lament: “Why don’t you work hard, now that the father of two children is older, they are getting older and going to school, with no money to save where to pay for school?

I see some brothers in the neighborhood also work as workers like you, but people are busy, working at night, their wives and children are happy. But why only see you are free, drinking all the time?”.

As soon as I finished speaking, my husband waved his hand and slapped me in the cheek and said: “I don’t need you to wake me up, give me a lot of money to show up. Would you give me the money or not, I’ll park the car, plug the house, then go out and stand on the street, okay?”.

So I had to give all the capital to get the goods to give to my husband, in my heart, because my husband beat and scolded me.

The next day, hugging his swollen face to meet his father-in-law, he told the story of the incident, hoping that he would intervene and correct his son. Unexpectedly, my father-in-law let out a reproach:

“The wife herself is not serious, where is the husband’s interest in doing business, loving his wife and children?

Whenever her husband comes home from drinking and nags, he is lucky enough to just eat a slap. Yes, I was led straight back to my grandmother’s house. If you don’t want to be the daughter-in-law of this family, just go ahead.”

Disappointed leaving my father-in-law’s house to return, I did not expect my father-in-law to have such thoughts. My husband is becoming more and more excessive, constantly pressuring, insulting me and asking me to provide money for him to play.

I am also tired of being a wife and daughter-in-law of my husband’s family. What must I do to make my husband quit gambling and drinking and work hard? Living with such a husband, should I end the divorce?

According to Family and Society