Decided to get a divorce when he saw his wife nagging, after 1 year the husband regretted the bitter truth-Young man

Decided to get a divorce when I saw my wife nagging but now I regret it. A year of living with a new lover, I realized the bitter truth.

She doesn’t blame me, get angry when I’m careless or make a mistake… (Illustration image)

Every time my husband and I quarrel, I usually confide with Thuong. She is already a single mother working with my company. Although it’s not easy for a single woman to raise children, I always find her happy and optimistic. Being with Thuong, I always feel very comfortable. Everything I confide in, Thuong always listens attentively and never judges or judges anything, even compliments him on all sorts of things.

Love is different from my wife. She is always grumbling and complaining all day. She always wants her husband to be like this. I come home late from work, my wife’s face is heavy. I went out drinking with friends and was not satisfied. If she forgets her wedding anniversary, she will be angry all day. Sometimes a very simple thing can make her grumble all day long. Daily life is full of collisions and conflicts from small to large, making me feel extremely tired and depressed.

That’s why me and Thuong are getting closer and closer. Through conversations, I realized that my husband and I are not compatible. My wife doesn’t understand me as well as Thuong. She lacks tenderness, only making others uncomfortable with her excessive nagging. Sometimes I think how good it would be if my wife were like Thuong. The thought of possessing Beloved grew more and more in me.

Until one day, I decided to leave my wife to come to Thuong. That time, I was drunk and came home late, but unfortunately, a collision happened. Although I was not seriously injured, I fell, and it was very painful to scratch. Trying to go home, I thought that my wife would have mercy and comfort me. But I never expected that what I received from my wife was just a reproach. She loudly reproached: “I’ve told you so many times, but you don’t listen. Even if you drink, you must know where to stop, don’t come back so late. Now you’re falling again”.

I was so fed up with my wife’s complaining tone. Without letting my wife finish my sentence, I announced the divorce because I could not stand the rudeness, rudeness and lack of psychology of the woman standing in front of me anymore. Hearing the divorce announcement from my mouth, my wife was also shocked. However, she quietly signed my divorce petition without holding back any further when she saw me comparing with Thuong.

My wife and I quickly went to court. After the divorce, I lived with Thuong. The days with Thuong, my life feels much happier and more comfortable. I no longer have to listen to complaints, grumbling in my ears. I was sure that I made the right choice when I divorced my wife to be with my lover.

But then, just a month ago, I realized the bitter truth. That day, I overheard a phone conversation between Thuong and her ex-husband. Listening to the nagging, admonishing her ex-husband of all kinds of things, I saw the figure of my ex-wife. It seems that the ex-wife is standing in front of me, not Thuong anymore.

Only now do I realize the fact that only when people have feelings can they give each other such advice, advice, even resentment and anger. If you love someone, you will want the other person to correct their bad habits to be better and then feel sad and disappointed if the other person is indifferent to you. I can clearly see that Thuong still loves her ex-husband. She has no feelings for me.

Living together, I came home late because of drinking, Thuong did not grumble. Even if I play games all night and all morning, Thuong still smiles gently. She doesn’t blame me, get angry when I’m careless or make a mistake… Thuong only cares about how much money I give her every month. If a month has not been given, she will remind again.

Decided to break up as soon as I saw my wife nagging, but now I regret it. A year of living with a new lover, I realized the bitter truth. When I think back to my days with my ex-wife, I realize that I didn’t pay attention to the things she did.

I didn’t realize that behind those reproaches was pity, her mouth complained but her actions weren’t like that. She still quickly went to get bandages and antiseptic alcohol to treat her husband’s wound. And in the days that followed, I didn’t have to do anything to avoid affecting the wound. If only I could calmly look at myself to see if what my wife said was true or not, maybe it would be different.