My boyfriend received a photo, I was shocked when I heard the truth

Although I know that the office environment is often filled with drama, I don’t think there will be a day when the market will fall on me.

When I go to work, I just try to focus on my work, and I don’t care about outside stories. Including peers If I tell stories about this and that, I will also try to “listen to one ear and the other”.

The company I am working for is not too large in size, but the rooms are separate to ensure professionalism and privacy. For example, if I am an employee of the recruitment department, I will sit in a separate room with the accountant, IT team, director…

There were only about 4 people in my room. I sat next to a sister who had worked at the company for many years. Up to now, I have only been with this company for about 5 months.

My colleague next to me is an experienced, senior sister, but her personality makes me uncomfortable.

This woman often intrudes too deeply into my life, pushing the boundaries of politeness. When I first joined the company, I also made friends on Facebook with her. On my personal page, I often post pictures with my boyfriend and tag him in.

Suddenly, one day, my colleague became friends with my boyfriend. He held out his phone and I knew it. Actually, this is a rather insensitive and somewhat… ungainly act. Because my lover and she don’t know each other, why make friends?

The coworker made me feel like she was being more inquisitive. At that time, I was new to the company, I still had to bend over, pay attention to people’s attitudes, so I didn’t dare to give suggestions to my colleagues. I also told my boyfriend to accept my colleague’s friend request, to show that I’m a cheerful person.

To this day, I find that to be a huge mistake. I should have told my boyfriend to block this woman’s communications…

The conflict stemmed from an IT guy falling in love with me. I don’t know why he likes me anymore. This person made friends, talked to him, and I also showed that I already had a boyfriend. But he doesn’t seem to care much, still treats me in a way above friends and colleagues.

For example, he often buys milk tea and food for me even though I don’t ask for it. The first time or two, it may be that you like each other. But how often does he care about me more.

I also told him directly in the IT department that if I did that, everyone around would be against it, but he simply replied: “Never mind, I don’t mind”.

And then one day, he put on my desk a big salted egg sponge cake, a cup of milk tea and some cakes. This time, I decided not to touch an item at all, leaving it as it is.

I think if Mr. IT sees this scene, he will be embarrassed and next time won’t “attack” me anymore.

That same evening, my boyfriend asked me to meet him and said he had something to talk about. He showed me a photo of the food on my table and asked me to explain. Turns out, my colleague quickly took a picture of that moment and secretly sent it to my boyfriend.

The fact that I have a crush at the company, I never told him. Because I have no sympathy for Mr. IT at all, so I think that if I don’t say it, it will save me trouble and trouble. Now, my boyfriend suspects me of being unfaithful, hiding what he did at the company.

I was shocked and embarrassed by this unjust fact. I personally feel extremely resentful of my colleague. What right does she have to meddle in the matter? emotional mine like that?

Besides, I didn’t touch the food that my IT colleague gave me, but she also made up the story that at my company, “many brothers” loved it.

Now, I am very awkward, and it is also difficult to regain trust from my boyfriend. Was it partly my fault in this incident for not telling him everything in the first place?

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