Young girl panicking because of masturbation but “little girl” bleeds

04/05/2022 07:46 GMT+7

NVL 20 years old, is a student in Hanoi to see a doctor with something difficult to say. When the doctor asked her what kind of gynecological examination or examination she had, L. revealed that she saw blood after masturbating with her own hands, without using sex tools. The girl who is worried that she will tear her hymen will be evaluated later when she meets her boyfriend or fiancé. The doctor examined L. and found that her hymen was still there.

Another case is a girlfriend born in 2000, coming to the clinic because of severe appendicitis. Outer vulva swelling, itching. When the doctor examined the girl, she said she had not had sex but regularly masturbated. Because unhygienic masturbation habits lead to appendicitis.

Master, Doctor Phan Chi Thanh – Chief of Office of Training Center, National Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology said many young girls feel guilty for masturbating. There are people who are worried and panic about masturbation to tear the hymen?

In fact, Dr. Thanh said masturbation is not bad. Even many married women confided that they have high physiological needs and want to have sex to solve their desires. However, their husbands do not have such desires. Because they are shy, they do not dare to speak out, afraid of being called a lewd girl, ..

Therefore, to satisfy their own needs, they look to masturbation instead of choosing to have sex with a man other than their husband to release their desires, and that does not make family happiness suffer. break.

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According to statistics, about 70% of men over the age of 20 masturbate and more than 50% of women over the age of 30 masturbate. In fact, masturbation is quite common in any age as well as any gender regardless of male or female.

Masturbation is also a way to relieve sexual pressure, to get pleasure, to experience sex without a partner or simply to relax.

Female masturbation with moderate frequency helps the body sleep better, healthier. Proper masturbation, science can help reduce the risk of diabetes, heart disease, cervical cancer, etc.

According to Dr. Thanh, in women, masturbation is extremely diverse, each person has a different way of masturbation. Masturbation is my way of stimulating my sensitive areas. The human body has many different sensitive areas.

Not only the genitals are sensitive areas, there are women who have sensitive areas in the back of the neck, behind the ears. There are sisters who just need to be held hands to have pleasure. Having women stimulate their breasts or external genitalia also helps them to have pleasure.

Dr. Thanh added that the genitals contain many nerve receptors, so women with external stimulation can also achieve pleasure without having to stimulate deep inside the vagina.

Not everyone knows that if women can stimulate the clitoris, they can achieve stimulation for themselves without affecting the hymen.

‘For women who have not had sex, putting their hands inside the vagina can damage the hymen. But whether the hymen is torn or not depends on the size of the hymen. If the hymen is round or towel-shaped, the hymen is dilated without tearing the hymen. If the diaphragm is sieve-shaped, mesh-shaped, then stimulating the hand to enter the vagina can cause tearing of his hymen,” said Dr. Thanh.

Masturbation is only considered abnormal when you cannot control your masturbation activity and behavior. For example, you can’t stop masturbating, masturbation constantly disrupts your daily activities, affects your career as well as your relationships.

Khanh Chi