A father’s letter at 2:00 a.m. to his daughter before the university entrance exam is very emotional

A father’s letter to his daughter touched netizens.

Recently, a Facebook account shared on a social networking group a story that touched the online community. It’s a story about a father working as a worker, sometimes feeling helpless when his expectations are too high for his daughter but “receive results are not much”.

The story is that 12 years ago, during the sprint period for the university entrance exam of the eldest daughter, the test results were not good and the daughter neglected her studies, the father scolded her very harshly. And then, nearly 2 am that night, the daughter woke up to find the desk lamp still on, the father was wearing glasses and working hard to write something. The next morning when going to school, the eldest daughter found an envelope in her notebook, neatly written on the outside: “To: I!”.

It was a letter from a father to his daughter who had been harshly scolded by himself last night. The text of the letter is as follows:

“I love you!

Up to now, at this time, father and son cannot sit and talk to analyze right and wrong anymore because time is not much. The second is to say that the father is angry and scolds the child!

After all, my parents are really worried about me, if I can study for you, I’m sure I’ll stay up all night trying. Because you know, with my family like today, although looking up is not equal to anyone, but looking back is also proud, isn’t it, as many people and families want, you are also considered by everyone. important. That must also include the tireless efforts of his father, there are difficulties, worries, sleepless days and nights that he cannot share with anyone. You see, everything pays off.

As for taking care of the family as well as the children, after doing the business, the children have never had to be without their father, the children are cared for by their parents to be fully educated with the best that their peers have. , can visit many places that not all of you have?

That same care and expectations that parents place on their children too much are also a burden for them. Finishing is also the pride and glory, the comfort and joy of parents.

And the most realistic is the future of our children so that our whole family can hold their heads high to enjoy joy and happiness.

Dad’s life now has too many ups and downs, happy and sad, sometimes he thought he couldn’t get over it because his children tried hard.

Now I want to “please” you guys to try your best, that is the “biggest gift” that you guys give me.

The father also tries his best with his mother to take care of what he can.

Until now, I have always left no debt to anyone, no one to ask, now I beg you. I hope you guys can understand what I’m thinking.

Cam Pha, April 15, 2010!”

This facebook account also shared: “I thought a lot when I wrote these words as well as choosing where to share. I also have periods of depression, parents also have times when they feel helpless because they don’t know how to make their children understand. And this is how my father chooses to share with his children even though 12 years ago, my family was in a small town, my parents were workers and sharing, school psychology or the concept of wise parents is too luxurious. I always consider myself extremely lucky.”

“We have all been children, and will become parents in the future. Hope everyone loves more, learns to share more so that everyone can understand each other’s feelings, so that there are no more problems. heartbreaking like the past days” – The message of the above facebook account after sharing a letter from my father written 12 years ago is still topical.

The shared post quickly received the attention of netizens. After less than an hour of posting, it has attracted tens of thousands of reactions, comments and shares from netizens.

Many people express their love for their own greatest father, as well as confide in understanding the expectations and scoldings of their parents in the past for them all stemming from love. boundless love:

“We’ve all been children once, and will become parents in the future. Reading this article makes me feel like my father. I don’t write letters but always text messages to encourage a lot. Love dad”;

“Adults were once a child, but a child was never an adult. Adults see a child’s problems as the mouth of a well, but to the child it is the whole sky”;

“Dad is not born to be a father. So please forgive him”;

“Being a parent is also very stressful, reading and crying”;

“In general, each different situation creates different people. Parents who accompany their children, children can share and trust their parents like a friend, is the best. Children do not think in the direction of pressure. the force caused by parents, think in the direction that if you try now, you will enjoy yourself later, it will be lighter”;

“Deep down in the heart of every child has its own rebellion. Each stage of adulthood has a different way of thinking. No one is a parent without worrying about their child, but the important way Everyone’s concerns and concerns are different.Adults also take care of their children’s food, clothing and money, taking care of their children’s education so that they can equal friends, so sometimes adults are so busy that they forget their children need their attention. recent tragic case, we should rethink how we care and teach our children”;

“Children blame their parents, but they don’t know that, every day, parents have to face how much pressure, how many difficulties to have enough money to take care of the family, so that their children are not disadvantaged. The pressure of studying is just the first pressure that everyone has to go through, later when entering life, there will be thousands of other pressures that we have to face.Only when you become a parent will you understand. With parents’ hearts, today’s pressures are just for the hope that their children will have a better life in the future.Hope they are stronger enough to overcome the first waves of life, hope both sides will learn. how to share and understand each other”.

Lam Giang; Photo: MXH