If you want to be respected, don’t look at your husband’s property

Recently, the family of Mrs. Diem and Mr. Quy are falling into turmoil because of the division of property between two sons.

Mr. Quy wants to leave the family’s long-standing pottery workshop to his younger son Khai to manage, and his eldest son, Hung, is left with a house in front of him, with monthly rent of more than 40 million dong. , enough for the children to have capital to protect themselves when needed.

When his children got married, he bought a house for them to live in separately, the value of the two apartments was similar. Because his two sons are obedient, understanding and well-educated, he does not regret anything. When they need money to buy a car, or change a new car, he and his wife are also happy to support their children.

Said to leave the company to Mr. Khai to manage, but the shares of the company, Mr. Hung is still partially held. Every year, his company’s dividend is also divided. Many people say that he should leave the management of the workshop to his eldest son, but Mr. Quy knows that Hung is a gentle person, suitable only for professional work, not for management work.

Moreover, from a young age, Hung was also not interested in the family business, he was passionate about information technology and decided to become an IT engineer. Meanwhile, since childhood, Khai has been interested in business, has a talent for speech, and is good at socializing, so after a period of tutoring by his father, he has become very confident and full of courage in the marketplace. Mr. Quy felt very secure when he handed over the ceramic workshop to Khai.

A few days ago, Mrs. Diem went to Hung’s house to visit her grandchildren, by chance she overheard her son and daughter-in-law arguing. Hung’s wife believes that her husband’s parents divide their property like that is not fair. Hung is the eldest son, the right to manage the family business should be his. The house on the other side, can be rented for 40 million VND per month, although it is not a small amount, but compared to the amount of money that the pottery workshop brings, it is not enough.

Hung’s wife said that her husband must claim justice, but cannot bear such losses. Hung believes that the property of his parents and grandparents will give it to whoever wants it. The couple inherited two houses, not their parents so that the Hung and his wife would suffer. Words went back and forth, so the couple quarreled. Going to play, seeing her children shouting, Mrs. Diem had to leave, not daring to visit the grandchildren anymore.

Money matters often affect family feelings (Illustration)

The next day, under the pretext of buying some fresh seafood, the grandparents called their children home to eat. Unexpectedly, Hung’s wife used the excuse of being tired, so she did not go to her husband’s parents’ house, so Hung had to take the two children home. Although she did not say anything, Mrs. Diem was very sad.

Hung’s wife since giving birth to two children has stayed at home to work as a housewife and take care of the children. She also comes from a family with difficult circumstances, so she is always careful with money. Mrs. Diem and her husband did not intend to “be on the side, on the side of contempt” with their children, but they think that giving the right to manage the factory to someone who is capable and doing business, it is not necessary to give it to the eldest child.

She also guessed that because of this, her son and daughter-in-law would quarrel and quarrel. But she didn’t know how to make her daughter-in-law understand.

It is not uncommon for brides to compare and envy each other when their parents-in-law divide their assets. It is difficult to maintain peace in the family if the brides do not behave skillfully and delicately.

The property of the husband’s family, if the daughter-in-law does not contribute to it, she should not give an opinion. If you want to be respected by your husband’s family, you should not pay attention to the inheritance from your husband’s parents. The story of the husband’s family, let the husband come out. If the husband’s parents are biased, the husband will certainly realize it.

In case the husband has followed the parents’ arrangement, the wife should respect the husband’s decision, do not put pressure on the partner, causing them to turn against their parents. Money can be used to earn, but once lost love is very difficult to regain.

According to www.phunuonline.com.vn