Girls complain that they can’t be born as men when they’re born
Recently, my daughter has been showing many signs of depression, I don’t know how to show her that women are so interesting and lucky.
I am 42 years old, married for more than 18 years, have twin sons 17 years old and daughter 11 years old. Last week, my daughter confided that I was confused and worried. I asked, “Mom, why am I a girl”? I was shocked, did not understand what my son said.
I quickly explained: “I don’t know how vast the world is out there, I just feel it’s hard being a girl in my country. Both boys and girls are human, but when they get married, a man can stay and take care of the family. In the family, women have to leave the house to take care of their husband’s family wholeheartedly. Last year, in a dating program, there was a girl who wanted her future partner to stay in-law, so she received a lot of hate and was considered useful. I don’t understand why men who want to get married and take care of their parents are filial and obedient; women who want the same are considered narrow-minded and selfish. boy, the whole family is happy, rejoicing. Aunt Ut gave birth to baby Na as her first child, everyone’s face was sad, her husband cursed her for not being able to give birth. When married, the wife’s family is the maternal house, the husband’s family is the paternal house, the maternal family is outside, the inner family is inside, I can’t understand why this is so, I just find it unfair. I hate myself because I’m a girl, I can’t take care of my parents in the future. I hate this gender, wish I could be a boy for once; No matter how many responsibilities I carry or become a pillar, I want to be respected like that.”
>> I will live for myself instead of thinking about my husband’s family
I don’t know what to say from beginning to end, just listening to my son complain. I don’t believe these are the words uttered by an 11-year-old, a carefree age. Many young people today follow the LGBT trend, I fear my children will too. I say I have feelings for boys and always will, but I still hate my gender. I used to think many times because I wanted to escape the life of a woman, but then I gave up. Please share with me.
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