“I bought a 15kg goat
After saying goodbye, the guy made 5 trays to celebrate
Farewell when there is no 3rd person interfere, how will men? They will surely be sad. But the story below will make you “heartbroken”.
“I’m a 3rd year student and my boyfriend has graduated for a year. Me and him broke up with the reason that the two of us don’t have the same thoughts, somewhat contrasting personalities. Sometimes I feel stressed. and suffocating, so it was I who took the initiative to break up with my lover, but when we broke up, he felt very happy as if nothing had happened.
It’s so sad but it’s so strange!
The evening of the breakup, I was surfing facebook and saw my lover’s family posted on facebook with the status line: ‘Life has never been as fun as it is now’. Then I called to make an appointment with my lover to talk directly, at that time he was full of alcohol:
– Break up but you don’t feel sad?
– There’s nothing to be sad about, after breaking up… I feel very happy, comfortable in thought, don’t have to worry much.
– Are you drunk?
– He was very drunk, he drank a lot. When he was drunk, he told the truth… But he drank a lot because he broke up with his lover, so he was happy. In fact, he just bought a 15kg goat to make 5 trays of rice and then invited his relatives to come and celebrate. I take matters seriously.
– So you don’t feel sorry?
– My parents told me, if it’s not needed anymore, you don’t have to regret it. He always remembered his parents’ words.
– Have you talked to your parents about breaking up?
– I told you, after breaking up with me, I talked to my parents all the time, my parents just said: ‘Do you want to break up or love is your business’.
But why is the son so happy after breaking up? Is it possible that there is nothing left in their mind with their lover?”.
A lot of people expressed their feelings under the post, mostly… haha. It is advised that the girl should examine herself to see why her boyfriend is so happy after breaking up.
Perhaps their relationship has been broken for a long time, but the guy is afraid to speak first. And when it was proposed to break up, it was like “untie your heart”.
Read Men’s thoughts when parting
There are many reasons why men, although not proactive, are the ones who want to break up.
1. Bored but can’t find a good reason to break up
With this type of man, his previous expression was cold, always looking for excuses to avoid but afraid of reputation if he actively asked to break up. In fact, he is still wondering because it is only in the emotional part. Maybe you’re not at fault, that’s why he hesitated even more to say the ending
2. Although still in love, but too tired to break up
There are many girls who use the breakup phrase when they are angry. 1 or 2 times a man is still afraid, but many times he gets used to it and doesn’t feel that what you say is serious anymore. Or maybe when you love him, you control him too much, until one day he voluntarily chooses to be free rather than continue to be with you. This explains his excessive celebration. But maybe after a while he misses you dearly and wants to come back.
3. He already has someone else or has another interest
Whatever your breakup proposal is for, he’s been waiting for it for a long time. Maybe another new object appeared to be distracting his attention. When a man who is hesitating and even struggling with ideas hears a breakup proposal, isn’t it easier to decide?
In short, no matter what the reason is when ending a relationship, you should not regret it, and don’t try to question or question your ex’s attitude. What is old, put it aside, prepare a more complete, more mature mind to enter a new, more certain relationship.
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