When I came back to meet my boyfriend’s relatives, I accidentally caught the strange behavior of my future father-in-law, which made me immediately want to cancel the marriage.

My happy day when I came home to meet my future husband’s family suddenly turned into a sad day, I just wanted to cancel the marriage.

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Hoang and I are the same age, we’ve known each other for 1 year before we fell in love, so far our love has been nearly 2 years. During 3 years of knowing and loving each other, I really feel very secure about my boyfriend. In addition to affection, Hoang also showed me a solid support to entrust my life. Therefore, it feels appropriate to go to marriage when both have stable jobs, long enough time to love each other…

In the past, my boyfriend took me home to play a few times, played at home for a while and then left. This time, when I decided to get married, both sides agreed, so Hoang brought me back to officially debut with his extended family as his fiancée because the two families had agreed to both. to marriage. I was also very nervous, because when I went to my future husband’s house to play, there were a lot of relatives and friends of Hoang.

I’m not young anymore, I’m back to work, so it’s not too psychological to debut like that, just a bit shy because there are many people I just met for the first time. When I meet everyone, I greet them warmly, and I’m happy to receive compliments from others. The party was boisterous, everyone toasted each other jubilantly, everyone was red and drunk.

My boyfriend is the main character, so many people invite me to drink, so I get drunk and have to go back to the bedroom without knowing anything. I also had no mind to eat or think about anything else, so I stayed in my room to take care of my boyfriend, who is also my future husband. I was very afraid that Hoang would be harmed, so I had to stay by my side.

When I went to get water for Hoang, I went to the kitchen when I accidentally heard the future father-in-law shouting at his wife: “If you still haven’t cleaned up at this time, why don’t you ask your future daughter-in-law to come down and help? All night. I can’t see her face, I’ve been lazy to avoid work, I’m just bringing it back for a scene. She prepared a few million for me, I’ll go play cards later.”

The future mother-in-law replied: “Well, he’s drunk, where can he stay at home and rest. All day he only thinks about drinking and gambling, where is the money to play. Having a little money his son gives him, he uses it for party work, too. It’s over. Now there are guests at home, so he stays at home to make everyone happy.”

As soon as I finished speaking, my future father-in-law rushed over and slapped a few times on the cheek and on his wife’s head mercilessly and threatened: “In this house, men are the best, it’s not yet your turn to comment. Whatever. Tell me how to do it, argue back, teach life, you can only get beaten.”

Seeing this scene, I couldn’t help but be shocked. My father-in-law was violent and patriarchal like that, later becoming my wife was only miserable. After that day, I also began to realize the similarities between my future husband and my biological father, who is also very patriarchal, just wanting others to do as he pleases. I also see that he is also a drunkard, interested in gambling games…

Feeling that my future is uncertain if I get married, I no longer have confidence and look forward to a wedding like before. I don’t feel safe entrusting my life to such a place. Should I honestly share these with my fiancé? Or just forcefully break up to cancel the marriage?

(ngocanhle@…)