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3 great ways to deal with haters, everyone listens to them!

Mo Yan (born February 17, 1955) is a famous Chinese writer, the author of a number of classic modern literary works such as Red Sorghum, Treasures of Life, Shaped Sandalwood, Angry Garlic Bulbs. ,… His real name is Guan Mac Ye, comes from a farming family in Gao Mi district, Shandong province, China. Mo Yan’s compositions have not only been translated and published in many languages, but have also been adapted into films that resonate in the world.

The Nobel Committee for Literature praised Mo Yan as the author of works that “combine magical realism with folk tales, history and contemporary life”. He is also the sixth Asian author to win the Nobel Prize in Literature – the world’s most prestigious award in 2012.

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Writer Mac Ngon. Photo: NetEase

Mo Yan’s pen name (Mo Yan) in Chinese means “don’t speak”, which he took when writing his first novel, to remind himself to always be quiet. As a famous and influential writer in China as well as around the world, Mo Yan is not only the author of massive works, but also conveys to the young generation profound human philosophies.

After winning the Nobel Prize for Literature, Mo Yan faced a lot of talk and criticism, because many people thought he was not worthy. However, Mo Yan is still optimistic in the face of such criticism. He emphasized: “There will always be people who hate you in this world, and this is something that can never be changed. Whether you’re a good friend or not is one thing, but whether people want to hate it or not is another.”

The writer of Red Sorghum said that, when faced with haters, if you want to live a gentle, less troubled life, you should remember the following 3 things:

No matter how good you are, there will always be people who don’t like you.

Not everyone will help you. Some will help, some will do whatever it takes to hold you back. Some will support you, and some will poke you.

As a human, of course, there will be many different thoughts. Therefore, everything you do cannot make everyone feel satisfied, and in everyone’s heart, you will be a different “version”.

If someone is only giving you negative criticism that doesn’t make you better, it’s best to ignore them.

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For those who hate you, you don’t have to worry too much. When they are a wind, after blowing through you, the “dust” on your body even follows the wind and blows it away. You can be even brighter, brighter than at first.

Don’t lose your confidence just because no one appreciates you. More importantly, live for yourself and the people who love you.

    The “magnetic field” between people is a very abstract thing, you can’t explain it clearly, why some people fall in love at first sight, and some people can’t be friends for life. If you have to find a reason to explain why others hate you, think that you two are the two extreme magnets that should repel each other.

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    There is no reason for one person to love or hate another. Don’t go to the bottom to find out why other people don’t like you, and don’t try to please them to make them love you. All of this just wastes your time and energy. If you think too much, you will definitely be more tired.

      During his writing career, Mo Yan mentioned that: After receiving the Nobel Prize, he also received a number of anonymous letters defaming, criticizing his work, even in the letters there were words from insult him.

      However, Mo Yan did not pay too much attention to those letters, because there are many things in life that are difficult to control at will. Therefore, what he is interested in is the prestigious Nobel Prize – it is the best reward for his years of relentless efforts.

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      Writers always have positive and optimistic thoughts in life. Photo: NetEase

      Remember, the people who hate you have nothing to do with you, they are even a motivation for you to strive. Your life is positive or negative, it is in your thoughts.

      Live not to please others, but to achieve a better version of yourself the next day, to please yourself.

      This life is already too hard and hard, it’s a pity if we only spend time to care about those who hate us. After all, no one can live their own life.

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