That’s the story Ms. Nguyen Thi Lien Chi (34 years old, currently living in Malaysia) shared at the program Chat with your mother with milk.
After giving birth, I can’t walk, the doctor doesn’t know the reason
Chi said when she discovered pregnant, she is not married and is not mentally prepared to have children. One day while at work, some colleagues suddenly asked:Do you look like your breasts are expanding?”,Only then did Chi notice and tell her husband, he also realized. Her husband immediately took her to the hospital for examination, and as a result, she was pregnant. Everything came so suddenly that Chi raised her blood pressure right at the clinic.
Ms. Chi is currently living in Malaysia.
However, at that time, because life in the “foreign land” was not stable, there were no documents, and she was not officially married, afraid of public criticism, so Ms. Chi intended to abort the pregnancy.
“At that time, I was about to give up my child, but thanks to my husband’s encouragement and ideological work, I gradually gave up that thought.” Chi admitted. After that, Ms. Chi had to fly back and forth continuously for 3 months to complete the paperwork. Hugging her 3 months pregnant belly back to her hometown, everyone looked at her with “strange” eyes.
Chi’s pregnancy went quite smoothly, but on the day of delivery, when she entered the hospital, she was stunned to hear the doctor say:Babies can suffocate in the womb.
“The doctor asked me to call my husband in to sign the surgery paper. But I don’t need to call but sign the paper myself, trying to reduce the time so that I can get surgery as quickly as possible, avoiding danger to my baby. Thank God, baby. I was born healthy, beautiful, healthy. Seeing my baby bursting with happiness, it was only then that I knew what it was like to be a mother, a thousand times happier.” Chi remembers.
After giving birth, Chi suddenly became paralyzed in both legs, unable to stand up and walk.
I thought everything was done after the baby was born healthy, but unexpectedly, this mother had to face another tragedy. About 4 hours after surgery, the nurse told Ms. Chi to get up and practice walking so that the incision would heal quickly. However, no matter how hard she tried, she still couldn’t get up.
“The doctor and my husband kept asking me: “Why don’t you get up and practice walking?”, I can only answer: “I can’t stand”. My left foot is my dominant foot, but I tried but couldn’t lift it.
I’m scared to cry, extreme crisis. The doctor did all kinds of tests, pricked my legs continuously without feeling anything, and couldn’t find the reason why I was like that. The doctor said: “My leg has a recovery rate of only 0.01 %, it may be paralyzed for life.
It must be said that during that time, I was like living in hell, pessimistic, afraid of not being able to take care of my children. I called my family, an hour later, my parents flew to Malaysia to take care of me. Without my parents, I wouldn’t be where I am today.” Chi remembers the most terrible days of her life.
2-week-old baby wants a divorce from her husband
Having just given birth, Chi had to immediately wean her baby because her body injected and drank many drugs. She was immediately taken to therapy, an extremely arduous and difficult journey. Every time the doctor asks: “Can you see if your legs can move?” Chi is haunted again because her legs are completely paralyzed.
Chi asked for a divorce to “liberate” her husband, but he immediately dismissed it.
That was also the time when Chi realized that her husband was worthy of being the one to entrust her whole life with. She shared:Every day, he cleans his wife’s incision 3 times. When I get home from work, I try to give my wife a 30-minute massage. I suffer because I have become a useless person, a burden on my family, and can’t do anything. My husband has to go to work, take care of children, and take care of a disabled wife, I love him very much.
When my baby was 2 weeks old, I proposed a divorce to free my husband and give him a better future. But he told me: “I believe you can do it. If you can’t do it, I’m here”. I feel like the happiest wife in the world.”
After 4 months of treatment, the miracle finally came to Ms. Chi. She said, that day when she was sleeping, she was startled to wake up because she heard her baby crying for milk. Loving her child, she got up to make milk for her baby, but suddenly the oven could walk on its own.
Chi also unexpectedly recovered from the disease, making the whole family burst with happiness.
Chi didn’t even realize she was walking, until her mother woke up and asked:Where are you going?“, she just replied:I’m going to make milk for the baby.”. Then her mother shouted: “Can I go now?” The mother and daughter broke down in extreme happiness, even the doctor was surprised that Chi had such a miraculous recovery.
After all, Chi feels that having children is the most precious thing. Recalling that she once intended to give up her child, she regretted it. “I think he’s too selfish, too calculating, thinking too much.” Chi said. She thanked her family on both sides and her husband for loving and taking care of her so that she could enjoy the happiness she is today.
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