I came home from school with wet pants, mom scolded the teacher a lot but was embarrassed to hear the reason

For every parent, their child’s schoolwork is extremely important, but her care and attention for her child are equally concerned by parents.

Recently, a story caused a stir on Chinese social networks, and at the same time created a huge wave of controversy. Accordingly, the story begins with the mother of Bao Bao (4 years old) finding her daughter coming home from school with wet pants. The baby cried while walking. After checking, she saw that her daughter had cleaned her pants, so she was both shy and scared, so she cried when she came home from school.

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Bao Bao’s mother immediately called her teacher to ask about the incident, the teacher said that she did not know about this, so she did not change her pants.

After listening to the teacher’s explanation, Bao Bao’s mother entered the class chat group to denounce and condemn the teacher for taking care of the children. Many other parents also joined in cursing the teacher. Some even think that the teacher is not worthy of the tuition money they have spent for their children to go to school. At this point the teacher can only explain further: “In that day, I changed 3 pairs of pants for baby Bao Bao. So I don’t think at the end of the hour he’s going to go to the bathroom again and I don’t know when he goes.”

The teacher apologized to Bao Bao’s mother and promised to be more careful in taking care of the children. However, many parents are extremely harsh, indicating that they will transfer schools for their children if they discover similar incidents.

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After the story was shared, a large number of online communities believed that the teacher was indeed responsible for taking care of the children, but mistakes were inevitable. Besides, teaching children to practice toileting and personal hygiene before sending them to kindergarten is also something parents should do. 4-year-old children can completely call or tell the teacher about cleaning their pants. Why don’t parents teach their children before taking them to class so they can rest assured. In addition, parents need to calmly solve the problem, do not make pictures of the teacher on the chat group of the whole class. Bao Bao’s mother was somewhat ashamed of her impulsiveness.

In fact, when young children are sent to kindergarten, parents should not be too cautious or sensitive in all matters.

First, trust the teacher, the school

Since sending your child to school means you already have to trust this school, then trust the teachers here, instead of finding out about petty problems and questioning them. This affects not only her job but also your children (to a deeper level).

Second, communicate well with the teacher

Instead of voicing criticism, have a gentle conversation with her. Especially, in the era of the development of the media, we have to communicate properly and politely with the teacher to give the best solution.

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Third, understand and respect your child’s teacher

Each profession has its own difficulties, kindergarten teachers are no exception, even it is really difficult. They all have conscience and responsibility in their work. Therefore, every parent should respect and understand their difficulties to communicate peacefully instead of being aggressive or conflicted.