She heard the shocking news, said one sentence that made everyone blush
Teachers are experts in the field of teaching at school, and parents are experts in educating their children at home. The process of educating a child is not only about grades, but adults also have to create a learning environment that helps children develop both intellectually and personally.
To do that, teachers and parents need effective coordination, support, and communication. Therefore, today, parents often discuss with teachers about the learning situation of their children. They also focus on giving gifts on holidays and special occasions with the hope that teachers will pay more attention to their children. But those thoughts and actions often backfire.
The story below will give an expensive lesson, helping parents to have skillful manners with their children’s teachers.
Ms. Giang’s son (China) is currently in grade 1. To monitor his child’s academic performance at school, she often chats with her child’s homeroom teacher on weekends.
One day, during the conversation, Ms. Giang learned that the teacher was pregnant. Ms. Giang considers this a great opportunity for her and other parents to show their affection for the teacher. After that, she announced this news to the class group and asked everyone to contribute money to give her an electric car.
The Parents Association plans to give the teacher an electric car when she hears that she is pregnant. (Illustrated image)
However, not everyone agrees, many parents object because the gift is too big and inappropriate. Knowing the parents’ intentions, the homeroom teacher decided not to accept the gift.
“I don’t want to receive anything, people don’t waste money like that. Moreover, the school has clearly stated that teachers are not allowed to accept money, gifts from parents”, the teacher explained. She also joked that people didn’t like her so they gave her gifts to be disciplined.
Hearing the teacher say that, everyone was embarrassed, embarrassed, and gave up the idea. They have understood that without gifts or donations, their children can still study in a good environment, receive close attention from teachers and be treated fairly.
In fact, many parents show their respect and gratitude to teachers by giving gifts. Each person has a specific purpose, but accidentally doing this causes many bad things:
– Want your child to get more attention from the teacher: This is the most basic reason parents want. In their eyes, giving gifts will make teachers remember their kindness, thereby taking care of children more carefully. Actually, parents don’t have to do this. Teaching is a noble profession. In the eyes of teachers, all students need to be treated equally, without any special attention.
– Want to express yourself: Some parents like to compare themselves to others, both in life and at work. In the matter of children, they also do not want to be left behind in this race. Therefore, they bring money and material things out to express themselves. Such an approach often causes displeasure to others, even to the displeasure of teachers. The comparison of parents also negatively affects the development of children.
– Bringing blindness: Some people see the negative side of knowing gifts for teachers, so they won’t follow this race. But some other parents immediately agreed. Sometimes the agreement does not come from sincere hearts but because they want to end the argument. Since then, some other parents have quickly approved, even if they don’t want to.
It is the blindness of these parents that makes gift giving to teachers happen so often, creating a bad atmosphere. They think it is the duty of teachers to educate their children better. This is completely incorrect thinking, somewhat misleading.
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