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The 8-year-old boy was shunned by his friends, his mother was shocked to find out the reason because… 1 set of clothes!

11/04/2022 08:28 GMT+7

From a young age, parents need to teach their children about the value of money.

Xia Ren (China) is 8 years old this year, studying in grade 3 at an elementary school. His parents have been in business for many years, the family’s economy is well off. Once, his mother went on a business trip to the US and bought him a very nice set of branded clothes, priced at 10,000 yuan (about 36 million dong). Xia Ren was delighted and often wore school uniforms.

During a luncheon, a classmate sitting next to him accidentally made a curry, so Xia Nhan’s clothes. The boy immediately became angry, loudly said: “This is the clothes of a famous fashion brand in the world that my mother bought for me. Now that you dirty it, will you have enough money to pay for it?”.

8-year-old boy wearing a suit of nearly 36 million went to class, shunned by his friends, his mother learned the SHOCKING truth: Change now or it will harm you!  - Photo 1.

No one dared approach Xia Ren for fear of soiling his clothes. (Illustrated image)

Then, under the teacher’s reconciliation, the friend apologized and Xia Ren also let go of the matter. But since then, the classmates didn’t dare to play with Xia Nhan. The boy was isolated, always alone. He cried with his mother, saying that he was shunned and discriminated against by his friends. Hearing that, his mother was very surprised, so she went to the teacher to ask about the situation.

It turned out that Xia Ren’s clothes were too expensive, and the friends felt self-deprecating, so they didn’t dare to play with him. Many friends expressed fear that they would not have much money to pay if they accidentally dirty Ha Nhan’s clothes. In addition, you also commented that Ha Nhan has an arrogant and difficult personality, so he doesn’t want to play with him.

Through the above story, many parents must have learned a great lesson in raising children. Buying expensive clothes and appliances causes many negative impacts on children’s development.

-Stimulating comparative psychology of children: If parents pamper their children too much, often buying expensive things will make children born unruly and difficult to obey. Children often compare things on their body with others. And when I see other people have better things, they will ask to buy it. If parents do not correct it in time, it will greatly affect the formation of the child’s personality.

-Not conducive to cultivating children’s diligence: Most children today grow up in an adequate environment, without worrying about lack of food and clothing as before. Therefore, if parents blindly meet their children’s requirements, they will make their children lazy and do not want to work. This is detrimental to the child’s maturation process.

– Formation of incorrect perception: Children’s values ​​are formed from a young age. If children grow up in rich economic conditions, parents who do not educate about the value of money properly will cause distorted thinking. For example, children put money first, greedy for profit, easily tempted by money. Parents give their children good economic conditions, but they need to educate their children about life skills and other values.

8-year-old boy wearing a suit of nearly 36 million went to class, shunned by his friends, his mother learned the SHOCKING truth: Change now or it will harm you!  - Photo 2.

Parents should not let their children wear expensive clothes and use expensive items. (Illustrated image)

Although today’s family life is rich, the education of children is not only based on economic conditions but also must have good teaching methods. Parents should not pamper their children because they will cause children to be spoiled. Teach your children to obey, study and work hard. This is what will benefit your child’s future.

According to phapluat.suckhoedoisong.vn

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