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Why am I being honest but the world is always hard on me?

First, let’s take a look at what is called “honesty”.

You should know that honesty is not an advantage, nor is it a duty of being a human being, nor is it a noble quality at all, not even listed as a “quality”.

1. Turning honesty into qualities and advantages

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You go on the road to meet a beggar, you feel that they are pitiful. This is philanthropy, but does it do anything? Your sympathy has no monetary value in this case.

You are walking down the street and you accidentally run into someone who is being bullied. You feel that the bully is evil, cruel. Of course, the person being bullied is considered by you to be an underdog, in need of protection. This is charity.

Remember, honesty can’t change anything, so it’s not an advantage or quality that many people often mistakenly believe.

There are many bad people in this world, but honest people make up the majority.

So how can we turn “honesty” into an advantage? That is “for others”, or it can be said: Helping others.

Still friends when you meet beggars on that street. You feel them pitiful, this is kindness. But you actively approach them with a few dong or a lunch box, this is called “for others”. Thus, honesty has become an advantage and a quality.

You witness bad people bully good people, you feel resentment. If you dare to stand up now to stop that oppression, or shout for help if you are not capable, this is “for others”. This action is considered an advantage and a quality.

2. Can an honest life avoid suffering?

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Let’s talk about morality: Only when you give will you receive.

Living honestly but not daring to give, then is it qualified to prevent difficulties from surrounding? This is like going to the supermarket to buy things but don’t want to spend money!

If you help many people, your suffering will also automatically reduce a lot. But remember, here is only “reducing”, not “disappearing completely”.

I help a lot of people at work. When I had a difficult time, many friends voiced their displeasure: “Hey, normally he helps them, when he got into trouble, no one would come to support him.”

Difficulties appear, based on what requires others to bear for you?

I help others not because I want them to save a life or try to help in return.

No matter how you live, good or bad, life is full of difficulties and tribulations. It’s just that if you live honestly, sometimes there will be people willing to extend a helping hand, everything becomes a lot easier. This is your blessing. But never make the mistake of thinking that living a gentle and good life is so that you can grow old peacefully.

Kindness is sometimes also an attachment in thought. Live honestly to satisfy moral limits, not to be ashamed of your heart, sometimes even feel happy because you see life full of warmth and tolerance.

3. Finding happiness in tribulations

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Everyone in this world faces difficulties and uncertainties. But a huge disadvantage of many people is that they always think that they are more unhappy, have more difficulties than the people around them, think that God is not fair.

Tell you a story about this. A girl jumped from the 10th floor because she encountered many unsatisfactory things in her life.

During the fall, she saw the couple on the 9th floor arguing. She realized, clearly in front of the neighbors, that the two were very affectionate, but closed the door, arguing non-stop.

She saw that the guy who lived on the 8th floor, who was normally very strong, was now secretly crying alone in the corner. Turns out, strong men also have to cry sometimes.

She saw the fiancé of the girl living on the 7th floor having an affair with her best friend. The lover has an affair with his best friend, what could be more painful than this?

She saw the normally smiling girl on the 6th floor taking medication to control her depression. The person who likes to laugh but also hides so much pain?

She saw a young unemployed man on the 5th floor smoking a cigarette while surfing the web to find a job. The floor has a lot of filters, he must have put a lot of pressure on it!

Indeed! Every human being living in this world is full of unhappiness, more or less depending on how each individual perceives the problem.

Suffering is still there, we must constantly conquer suffering, what remains is experience and conclusion.

Using the simplest mind to deal with this world, you will find happiness even in suffering.

(Source: Zhihu)

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