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Disillusioned when entering marriage with a boyfriend in school

I could not have imagined that the dream of marriage and family life would stand on the edge of an abyss just by the scrutiny of that man’s own words…

The beauty was disillusioned when she entered marriage with a Western guy because of differences in culture, thinking and daily life. But I believe that many other girls are so disillusioned that they can… break their faces or their hearts when they get married to even the purest Vietnamese man!

I am the prime example here. We came together with the most innocent and pure love of our school days and the days of hand in hand building our careers. He is my youth and vice versa!

When my career was on the rise, I discussed it with my husband and decided to “retreat to the harem” to take care of my children, family and friends… We have three children, both normal and boring.

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It’s not an exaggeration, but I raise healthy children, teach them wisely, and deal with my grandparents’ family almost never losing heart. But the heart of the person closest to me, my husband, I can’t hold more and more.

At first, I just overheard him calling me a “freebie”, “a motherfucker”, “know nothing”… during a late tea party with friends. I think it’s just a word when drunk, a man’s blood count is high, so I don’t mind.

But more and more, such words appear more and more often in my life, in front of my parents on both sides, in front of relatives and even my children!

I tried to calm down to sit down and talk to my husband, but his only response was disdain. He said that a decade of staying at home to raise children made me fall behind a lot and have no value in society.

I couldn’t believe that thought would appear in the man I once loved and built a career side by side. Once, he even bluntly said to my face: “You’re a parasite!”

Sometimes when I make suggestions like this, like that in business, my husband sneers: “I know what to say? My knowledge is too outdated compared to the current market. Don’t hold the light in front of the car.”… Do you feel discouraged and heartbroken when you hear that?

Not stopping there, although he is also a “small house”, spending money does not need to be thought of, but many times, my husband is so thrifty that it is hard to imagine!

Originally, my husband is not the type of person who measures fish sauce and counts onions and cucumbers. However, many times, he transferred money from the market to me or I reminded him to pay for his children’s school fees, electricity and water bills .., he scowled again: “Just the right amount of spending. I’m not your money printer“.

I want to buy him a good pair of shoes because it’s durable, doesn’t smell bad on his feet and he can be a little bit better than friends, more importantly, my family can afford to buy me such shoes, sometimes her husband doesn’t care, but at other times grumbles for a whole week that “the child is spoiled by mom”, pampers him to make him happy, likes to dress up…

Oh my god, I’m spending it on his parents, on his kids! Even a penny given to my biological mother by my father, I did not take it from them.

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And my husband doesn’t know that what he has to spend for the children is just the money to go to school. As for extra-curricular classes, vaccinations, or clothes… of my children, I still quietly spend the profits from capital contribution with friends.

My husband didn’t know for a decade at home, when the children went to school, the children slept…, I still silently learned more about business, investment orientation and business management… I also participated in many start-up projects. friends, rather than relying on his business, I’m afraid I can’t afford to give my children a stable future.

Every day I am more and more tired and bored because the husband only likes to snoop and despise his wife. I know, he is treating me as a nanny in the house, not “respectful like new”. Many times, I wish my husband would go on a long business trip and do not need to contact me to make my mother and daughter comfortable…

Married for 10 years, odd. The journey of knowing and falling in love has also reached 2 decades. I can’t believe that the guy who used to be stupid with a gentle smile, the guy who used to gently take care of me every little bit… would turn into a human. man like this.

I could not have imagined that my dream of marriage and family life would stand on the edge of an abyss just by that man’s prying words… What should I do now?

According to Vietnamnet

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