Registering to participate in the program You Want to Date, both Truong Nhu Trong (also known as Truong Hung, 37 years old) and Le Thi Thuy An (25 years old) both want to find themselves “the other half to love” because both have children of their own.
Teacher Truong Hung and online shop owner Thuy An participated in the program You Want to Date to find your “half”.
Talking about his advantages, teacher Truong Hung shared that he is an emotional person, but because life is a bit boring, he often smokes. In return, the owner of the online shop Thuy An is very happy, she is funny, so she often brings joy to everyone. The downside is hot-tempered and cranky when hungry or sleepy. She is also the type of person “If I know I’m wrong, I’ll correct it, but I never feel like I’m wrong”Thuy An revealed.
Talking about the love story, Mr. Hung confided: “When I first started out as a university student, I was like I just had a crush on her. But there was an “accident” happened and I have a son, now 11 years old. In contrast, Thuy An also experienced 3 difficult love affairs. If the first love is too young or the second love is not stable about work, so the third love is full of difficulties.
While Mr. Hung considers having his own child an “accident”…
Then Thuy An considers her daughter as a gift that God has given her after a troubled love affair.
“The third love is ironically that friend is already married, so when we found out, we didn’t continue. Another irony is that when I found out you had a family, broke up, I found out that I had a baby. But my baby was not an “accident”. Children coming to me is my wish, just like God compensates me. Although I don’t have a perfect love, I have a lovely princess instead. The owner of the online shop confided.
Therefore, Thuy An wishes to find her child a father who meets the following 3 criteria: First and foremost, that man must be tolerant enough to love both her mother and her child. The second criterion is that the person is not a smoker and the last wish is that the future husband is not patriarchal.
Meanwhile, Mr. Hung is only concerned with feelings, not setting any requirements or standards for his future girlfriend.
Therefore, Thuy An wishes to find her daughter a father who has enough tolerance to love both mother and child.
When “opening the fence”, the girl from Can Tho did not hesitate to ask some “hard” questions to better understand the personality and thoughts of the boy’s side. In particular, she turned to the issue of “accident having children” that Mr. Hung shared earlier, that he was married and had children, so why did he call having children “accidents”?
This is the math teacher has to “sweat out” to explain: “Because you came at a time when I didn’t want to, because I really didn’t want to get married at that time. At that time, I didn’t have anything, couldn’t take care of her yet, and couldn’t do anything. But I still have to get married because at least let my child have a father and mother. But after a while, I found out that if I don’t have faithIf you feel like you can’t live together.”
Thuy An asked a “very harsh” question about Mr. Hung’s “accident having children”.
Finally, the math teacher must clearly explain his or her situation at the time.
Mr. Hung’s sharing is completely contrary to Thuy An’s view of life, because according to her, it is better for me to live without a father or without a mother but to live a full, happy and happy life than to live with my father. Mom and Dad are not happy.
Besides, Thuy An also shared that although she is young and a single mother, she has enough economic power to take care of her mother and daughter, so she will not ask Mr. Hung to worry about anything. However, she made a condition for Mr. Hung if he went to the same house to quit smoking and practice drinking because she often “borrowed alcohol to relieve sadness”. This makes the “boy” afraid because he himself does not know how to drink.
Both Mr. Hung and Thuy An put the word “If” in their words.
Before coming to the final decision, the math teacher shared: “I will marry you if I love you. After a day or two days or three days or whatever but you have to love first.” And Thuy An also “If”: “And I accept marriage if you love my children.” As a result, after 3 hours of counting by matchmakers, both Mr. Hung and Thuy An did not press the button to agree to date.
Behind the scenes, the beautiful single mother shared: “I have a feeling that my male friends and I are not suitable for each other. In terms of looks, male friends don’t match my eyes. In terms of age, the male friend is slightly older than me. In the sharing, the male friend is a teacher but talks too flowery, but I don’t like flowery men, so I don’t press the button.”
As a result, both of them did not press the button to agree to date because there were many disagreements in their views on love, family and life.
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