The mother-in-law borrowed 200 million, when she paid it, it was only half with the reason why the daughter-in-law fell back-Young man

My mother-in-law is too much to eat even my husband’s savings.

What should I do when I fall into this situation (Artwork)

I’ve been married for 4 years, since then I’ve stayed at my husband’s house. Every month, my wife and I are obliged to contribute 6 million dong for food and living expenses for our mother-in-law (previously, we only paid 5 million, but after the birth of our first child, my husband and I raised another 1 million). . Not to mention, sometimes my wife and I also contribute money for electricity and water, and give our mother-in-law extra pocket money.

This level of contribution in my opinion is moderate, not much nor less because this is a “hard” contribution, the rest is that I also go to the market to buy and sell, in the house with broken furniture, need to buy a new one, I am also comfortable. spending money… My mother-in-law also did not complain about this contribution, because she also has a pension.

More than a year ago, my mother-in-law borrowed 200 million VND from my husband and I. This money is money from the dowry at the time of marriage and money that my husband and I worked hard to save. Knowing that my mother-in-law has a job, I carefreely take money to lend her mother-in-law.

Recently, I needed money to expand my business, get more products to sell… I asked my mother-in-law for a loan, she promised to pay after 10 days, along with an attitude that seemed very uncomfortable. Exactly 10 days later, my mother-in-law gave me 100 million dong and told me to repay the loan. The remaining amount, minus other amounts.

When I wondered why I gave half of the money, my mother-in-law shouted to me: “The two of us are married until now, we live at her husband’s house, without paying any rent. When the time came to give birth, she also took care and looked after the children. to help out when my parents are not at home… That money is worth more than a hundred million. I don’t know anything, but I dare to ask for it. Are you good at moving out and living in, see if you can save any money? “.

I was quite surprised and shocked at the mother-in-law’s explanation. I couldn’t believe what she said was true. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law made a detailed calculation, more than that with her children and grandchildren. If my mother-in-law had told me before, my husband and I would have gone out to live alone, and would not have dared to ask her to take care of our grandchildren.

My mother-in-law doesn’t have to spend anything, but how can she think of a way to get 100 million from my husband and I? This money comes from the couple’s hard work. Now the job is going smoothly, I want to expand my business, so I need money, but my mother-in-law does such a thing, I am very sad and have no mind to think about business anymore.

I also told this story to my husband, although he knew that it was wrong for his mother to do this, he did not dare to ask for money from her. My husband even scolded me, let me forget the money: “If you have a few silver coins, consider giving your mother away for peace of mind. After a few years of marriage, you have not given your mother anything. Consider it as a return. So, do as much business as you can. The house is safe, don’t do anything to cause trouble.”

Honestly, I also thought about forgetting that money, but the more I think about it, the more resentful I get and my mother-in-law is ridiculous. If I ignore this, my mother-in-law will think of other ways to extract my money later. What should I do when I fall into this situation, should I bluntly demand money from my mother-in-law? Moving out to live separately, has nothing to do with money with her mother-in-law anymore?

(Huyennga@…)