While most 15-year-olds are enjoying their senior years of high school, she spends her days on the street pretending to be cows to earn money.
Hao Dongdong knelt on the street begging people for help. Photo: 163.com
Mr. Hao Xinli, a farmer living in Anhui province, China has a strange disease called ankylosing spondylitis, which affects the spine.
According to NetEase, Mr. Xinli opened a small shop in Hefei because he could not continue farming due to back pain. In that year, he married Mrs. Li Xiuru, Dongdong’s mother.
During a shopping trip, Mr. Xinli and his wife saw a phone shop giving promotional gifts to customers and rushed over to see. After arguing with a salesman here for taking too many products for free, Mr. Xinli got into a fight. As a result, he injured his back and the pain got worse.
When he went to the doctor, Mr. Xinli had broken his spine and damaged his neck, leaving his entire upper body paralyzed. The police couldn’t blame anyone for the incident, so he received no compensation from the phone shop. Since then, the family has to pay all the necessary expenses for the surgery and medicine for his treatment.
After a while, Mrs. Li Xiuru packed up and left, making little Hao Dongdong and her siblings the main earners for the whole family. She had to go out into the street, pretending to be a cow so that strangers could ride on her back. In return they paid her 5 yuan.
Mr. Xinli followed his son to beg. Photo: 163.com
Dongdong said he is often called a money cheater and was once slapped in the face by a drunk man who thought he was trying to cheat him. However, the little girl persisted with her way of making money and brought home 400 yuan every day, helping to treat her father’s illness and maintain the family’s life.
Mr. Xinli said his biggest wish is to be able to one day stand up and walk again so that he is no longer a burden for the whole family. At that time, he will send Dongdong to school and let his children enjoy family life like before.
4 signs that show your child is very filial
1. When something is delicious, I think of my parents
Nowadays, living conditions are much better, so parents also take care of their children more fully in terms of material things. What children like to eat, parents are willing to buy it, even if it is expensive. Children today are spoiled, become the center of the family and always enjoy the best. Because of that, sometimes children do not know how to share with others. However, not all children are like that.
Some children know how to share their delicious dishes with friends around. Of course, children with this personality are often loved by everyone. When having delicious food, children always think of their loved ones and want to keep them for their parents to eat together. At the age of children, if they have such thoughts, they will surely be filial to their parents later on.
2. Defending parents in front of outsiders
Some people have rather bizarre pastimes, which are unintentionally or intentionally badmouthing a child’s parents to annoy them. Or some people ask children questions like: Do you like mom or dad? Do you think your mother is beautiful?,… These questions sound simple to adults but extremely difficult for children. As for the questioners, they simply don’t care about the answer, but just enjoy enjoying the child’s confused, frustrated expression.
There are many children, no matter what others ask or say, they all turn to their parents and protect them with all their might against the disparaging words of outsiders: “No, my parents aren’t like that”, ” I love both mom and dad”,… If your child behaves like that, you are a lucky person, because he is really filial.
3. Actively help parents
Today, children’s living conditions are relatively affluent. Many families have domestic helpers and nannies in charge of taking care of children, and children just need to obediently play with toys. When parents are busy, they just need their children not to disturb them. They do not expect their children to help with the housework. Many parents do not dare to let their children do housework because they are worried about unsafety, damage to furniture, etc.
Besides the careless children, there are some children who are very attentive when their parents are busy and will actively help in their ability. Although sometimes children are a bit slow, not much help for parents. But for them this is the happiest, sweetest thing. Because I know how to think, know how to care for my parents.
4. Take care when parents are sick
When parents are sick, some children can be very attentive at first, but then they start to feel tired and uncomfortable. Because children feel that their parents are influencing their work. “Because my mother is sick, I can’t go out”, “Because my father is sick, I have to turn off the TV to let him sleep”, .., – some children may think like that. Although children still take care of their parents, they become more impatient.
On the contrary, if children can patiently take care of their parents without complaining, then they are really filial. When parents get old, they don’t have to worry because their children are very filial and will certainly take good care of their parents.
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