The same scene as a bride, why is the eldest sister-in-law so happy, always loved by her mother-in-law, not having to do housework.
She flatly criticized me for being sloppy, sloppy, bad at cooking, lazy… (Illustration photo)
Having been married to my husband’s family for 10 years, that time was not very happy for me because I always received indifference, coldness and discrimination from my mother-in-law. Sometimes I just wish I had money, the first thing I do is buy a small house to go out to live on my own, even if it’s cramped, I can handle it and think it’s happier than living in a spacious and spacious house. slowly but always being pressured by her mother-in-law.
Knowing that my mother-in-law does not like me, I also try to work to earn money, contribute enough living expenses to my mother-in-law so as not to be known as a parasite. When I’m not at work, I stay at home to clean the house, wash clothes, cook rice… I work like a domestic helper, but what I get is always discomfort from my mother-in-law. She bluntly criticized me for being sloppy, sloppy, bad at cooking, lazy…
Meanwhile, it is also the scene of being a bride, but why is the eldest sister-in-law so happy. My mother-in-law loves her very much because her family is well-off and often gives expensive gifts to her mother-in-law. Therefore, the eldest sister-in-law did not have to do anything in the house, so much so that the bathing clothes were thrown in the washing machine, and her mother-in-law asked me to wash and dry them for the whole family. For a whole year, the number of times the eldest sister-in-law went to the kitchen and washed dishes could be counted on one finger.
Many times when there are guests at home, I have to make a tray, I ask my sister-in-law to pick up the basket of vegetables, but she holds each vegetable stalk and flakes, very uncomfortable. When my mother-in-law saw that, she didn’t remind her, but she defended her: “If you’re tired, go back to your room and rest, let her sister-in-law do it. He’s a rural man, strong as a buffalo, just a little bit and he’s done”.
My mother-in-law is so unreasonable that, when my sister-in-law’s daughter wet the house, my mother-in-law did not ask her parents to change her clothes, clean the water, but loudly called me to do it for her. I told him that this was for his parents to do, and my mother-in-law was angry: “Who is my nephew, but who keeps comparing and calculating like a stranger. Instead of his pants, he’s jealous, will he count the credit?” .
There are days when the company has a lot of work, has to stay and work more, when I come home tired, I just want to take a bath and go to bed to be healthy. However, the mother-in-law did not leave it alone, she still served the rice and the whole family’s bowl, so that I could go home and wash it. Before she had time to rest, her mother-in-law shouted to beat her back and wash her hands for some clothes. Early the next morning, I saw my mother-in-law calling me up to sweep, clean, and cook breakfast for the whole family. Meanwhile, the eldest sister-in-law can sleep well, wake up just eat breakfast and go to work.
Whenever there are guests at home, me and my biological parents’ house always become a topic that my mother-in-law tells others about. My mother-in-law proudly told me about her rich elder sister-in-law, skillful and noble eldest daughter-in-law… And I was misrepresented to the point of pathetic, ashamed, and pitiful. But I am not to the point of being lazy and evil like my mother-in-law presented to so many people.
Everything in my family’s family is trying hard, not afraid to work hard. But do not be recognized and praised by her mother-in-law even once. With the same scene as a bride, why are my sister-in-law and I the complete opposite. Many times, I can only cry alone.
Sometimes I just want to be loved by my mother-in-law, only 1/10 of the eldest sister-in-law. What must I do to improve the current situation, so as not to be discriminated against like now? Give me advice.
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