No people women Who wants to break up in marriage, especially after giving birth to a child because this can affect the child’s psyche. However, in the event that the marriage cannot continue, the woman – now a mother, always wants to be the one to get custody of the children.
Also with a mother’s desire to raise a child, a female singer Nhat Kim Anh also trying relentlessly to win custody of his son. It is known that since divorcing her ex-husband Buu Loc, Nhat Kim Anh had to attend dozens of court sessions lasting for 2 years to fight for joint custody of her son. However, fate still did not allow the mother and daughter to reunite when the lawsuit was won. As for the businessman, although he lost the lawsuit, he refused to hand over his children to his ex-wife.
Since divorcing her ex-husband Buu Loc, Nhat Kim Anh has had to attend dozens of court sessions to fight for the right to raise her son.
Specifically, recently, ex-husband Nhat Kim Anh revealed the reason why he decided not to hand over his children to his ex-wife despite losing the lawsuit: “She used to think that me and my adoptive grandparents were the best. My grandparents and I raised and raised the child from birth until now, now he is firm, why is it not suitable anymore.” The reason he gave made many people nod their heads and found it quite right.
Because the reality of life shows that after the divorce, he takes care of Buu Long little by little. Personal page Buu Loc shares a lot of pictures about the life of father and son. Wherever father and son go, they always cling to each other and never leave. Since the divorce until now, he has never seen the businessman mention the love story, but his joy is the first son, taking care of his parents.
The father added: “You should understand that loving your child is not reflected in the right of anyone to nurture it, but a sacred responsibility to ensure the best physical and mental development to shape its personality and morality in the future. this. I kept quiet, because I didn’t want to contribute to creating a scandal that would adversely affect my child’s future when he grew up later.
Again, I don’t allow anyone to hurt my child. My child is at a sensitive stage, forming his personality, so I don’t want my child’s future to be affected by negative stories. I think Tin’s development in terms of physical, personality, as well as obedient and polite up to now is the best proof for the process of me and my grandparents taking care of Buu Long since he was a baby. heart until now”.
It is known that Nhat Kim Anh married Buu Loc in 2014, 1 year later she gave birth to baby Buu Long. After the divorce, due to the nature of work, Nhat Kim Anh left her son for her husband’s family to raise for a while. In 2017, the singer posted a forum to denounce her ex-husband’s actions to prevent the mother and daughter from seeing each other, even she had to beg to take her son out for the weekend but received no reply. After many court sessions, on March 17, 2021, Nhat Kim Anh won the case and officially won custody of the children.
After many court sessions, on March 17, 2021, Nhat Kim Anh won the case and officially won custody of the children.
The thought of finally being reunited with her children, but many unexpected events happened that made the single mother unpredictable.
After gaining custody of the children, in the joy of being reunited with their son, the epidemic broke out again, and Ho Chi Minh City began to implement the social distancing order again. Nhat Kim Anh’s son is still in Can Tho, his father’s hometown. Moreover, this period of separation fell right at the time when Buu Long entered school, so she was forced to leave her child at her grandfather’s house to continue studying.
After more than 5 months of winning the lawsuit and gaining custody of the children, Nhat Kim Anh still cannot reunite her children because of the epidemic and her children’s studies.
In an interview, the female singer clarified the reason: “At the end of March, the court ruled that I won the case. But the ex-husband refused to hand over the child, so the law of coercion was applied. Everything was not finished when the epidemic broke out again. The care of the children at this time is taken care of by my family, so I am also helpless. When the distance is over, I will return to my husband’s hometown to discuss my children. The paternal side wants the baby to live and study in the countryside, in the summer or on weekends, he will go up with his mother. I plan to discuss and listen to the child’s wishes before making the final decision.”
Nhat Kim Anh said she would listen to her son’s wishes to work with her ex-husband to come up with the best plan for the baby.
During that time, because she missed her child so much, Nhat Kim Anh spent time repairing a lovely room for her baby. She said words of love, burst into tears and said the reason why she couldn’t pick up her son: “Today 9/20 is my birthday. I wish my son always healthy, whether you are with your father or with your mother, you will always love both sides. Well, it’s up to you, baby, I’ve fought for so many years to want you to stay with me.
But perhaps fate does not cooperate with their mother and daughter. So on the day the mother prepares to pick up her child, the day of the 16th directive, social distancing. Therefore, my mother and I still cannot return to each other. Well, it’s up to you. If you are with your father, and your grandparents are still happy, then I will stay here and wait for you.”
On December 24, 2021, the Supreme People’s Court suddenly issued a decision to suspend the execution of the cassation decision of the High People’s Court in Ho Chi Minh City on the dispute over the change of the person directly raising the child between the plaintiff, Singer Nhat Kim Anh and the defendant are ex-husbands (the decision to give custody to Nhat Kim Anh). That is, until now, Nhat Kim Anh’s son Buu Long still has to live with his father.
Until now, Nhat Kim Anh’s son Buu Long still has to live with his grandfather’s house in Can Tho.
Before this news, Nhat Kim Anh shared that her heart was “unbearably painful”. “If I can see my child, take him out to play, take care of him, talk to him, then I don’t have to fight. Pain is also painful, I just hope that he has a full spiritual life when he has both parents. Every time I hear you say that you just want to go back to your mother, that you want to have a mother, I feel unbearable pain.” single mother confided.
The singer also affirmed that she cannot live without children and the most important thing in her life is baby Buu Long. “Every day I hold my baby in my arms, sleep with him for long nights, even though the marriage is painful, but because of him, I endure. Yet I was suddenly cut off from my son, like a connection that suddenly broke. I used to panic and despair like crazy.”
Many fans, especially mothers, expressed their sympathy for the mother of one child. Surely those who have given birth and raised children can understand Nhat Kim Anh’s heart. For mothers, even though they are away from their children for only one day, they feel very nostalgic. What’s more, single mother Nhat Kim Anh – in the past 4 years, she has only met her child a few times, try asking which mother can stand it.
Nhat Kim Anh always tries to make up for it so that her son doesn’t get hurt emotionally.
Currently, after many disagreements, Nhat Kim Anh and her ex-husband Buu Loc because of the common goal of taking care of their children’s future, have happily talked to each other and soon discussed the matter of raising the baby.
She hopes everything will go smoothly and she will be with her children soon: “Currently, I have finished preparing the room to wait for my son to come back to me, but I still have to wait for the execution of the sentence to help my mother and daughter reunite. Sometimes when my child says “Buu Long loves my mother”, I feel broken. I just burst into tears. Looking at my baby’s room, I just want to pick him up right away. But right now, I can only try and wait for fate.”
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