Mother took her 7-year-old son to dinner with an old classmate, and when she got home, she found that she had been deleted from the chat group: Knowing the reason, she blushed!

April 16, 2022 11:50 GMT+7

Ms. Zhang (China) has a 7-year-old son, because she does not have an assistant to take care of, so she always carries the baby with her wherever she goes. Once her high school classmate held a class reunion. Although it was a day off, but Ms. Truong’s husband worked part-time, reluctantly, the mother had to send her children to this party.

Old classmates haven’t seen for a long time, everyone talked warmly, in a flash it was time for lunch. Before the dishes were prepared, Ms. Truong’s son stood up first and put a few pieces of meat in his bowl.

Of course, the adults can sympathize with the child because it is past noon, it is normal for children to be hungry and have to eat a few pads. But unexpectedly, when all the dishes were placed on the table, the child kept picking up and pulling out some of his favorite dishes in front of him, not letting anyone touch his chopsticks.

Although the mother asked her son to be serious and explained to everyone that the child was naughty, she could not change the situation. After returning home, Ms. Truong wanted to see photos of the party but found that she had been removed from the group chat. The feeling of surprise and shame made this mother choke. She believes that children’s mistakes should not affect adult feelings. However, there are also opinions that this is also a lesson for mothers to review how to teach their children.

There are many selfish, arrogant children, and the consequences of parents indulging their children’s mistakes are:

1. Children are easy to get into trouble

Parents blindly respond to all unreasonable requests of their children, but after their children leave society, no one pays any attention to them. In the past time, there have been many cases of bad children causing frustration in society, some children even broke the law, the biggest reason is that parents did not educate them in time.

2. Make your parents famous

Just like the parent above was removed from the group because of her child’s rude behavior. Children are like an example of parents, when children make mistakes, the opposite person’s first thought is that the parent’s upbringing is not up to the mark.

So how should parents properly educate their children?

: Love but don’t spoil

Parents who want their children to become educated and polite people should not spoil their children too much. If parents love their children without principles, agreeing to all requests and pampering them unconditionally, it will have a lot of bad effects on the development of children.

②: Teach children to be polite

Some kids are more introverted and don’t want to greet others, but others who don’t know their personality will just think they’re rude. Parents do not force their children to please the elders, but they can make it clear to their children that greeting is a polite behavior, showing their concern, and over time, children will be less resistant.

: Lead by example

Parents are the most important guide in their children’s growth, so their words and deeds are also extremely important, only when parents become an excellent example, children can imitate the good behavior of their parents, consciously limit their wrong actions and become a good person.

Parents loving in the wrong way, pampering their children blindly is really not good for their children but will slowly push them down the abyss. I hope that every parent should give their child the right love, don’t let the wrong love hurt their child and those around them.

According to Nhipsongviet.toquoc.vn