Boys often point to the tree by the side of the road and call “mom”, I am heartbroken to know the reason
Divorced couple, knowing that the child lacks mother’s love, I always try to leave work early to play with my child. My son lives with his grandmother every day, until now he is only 2 years old.
But about a week ago I noticed something strange. Every time I take him to the playground, he points to the big tree across the street from my house and calls out: “Mother! Mother!”.
My son said he was not good enough, asking him is not helpful. At first, I thought she missed her mother, so I just called. But it was unusual for the boy to point to the tree to call his mother.
Until last Monday, I was a bit tired, so I asked my boss to take a day off work. And I witnessed an unexpected scene. In the morning, standing on the second floor, through the window pane, I looked at the big tree opposite the road. Behind the tree is my ex-wife!
She stood there looking this way, clearly wanting to see her son. My children often get up early, my mother often let her sit in a toy car in the sundeck so that she can clean and cook breakfast in the house.
My wife must have been passing through work, purposely stopping to look at her son. I regretfully realized that it was not my son who called his mother for no reason, but that he had repeatedly seen his mother standing on the side of the road.
four billionbefore me and my wife officially divorced due to conflict mother-in-law and daughter-in-law too stressful. My wife didn’t commit any big mistakes, just daily bumps but she refused to tolerate her mother-in-law. But I couldn’t bear to see my mother upset and angry. At that time, the child was young, just finished weaning, because my wife did not have a job, so I let her raise the child. My wife knows that bringing a child with her will only cause suffering for the boy, and my mother really loves her grandchild.
The agreement was that she was allowed to visit me often, but in reality my mother forbade her to see me. Every time she came, she wouldn’t open the door. She said it was best to let the boy think he has no mother. Because she is young, will remarry and have children with her new husband, soon forget about her son. Now they are close, she is indifferent later, the more hurt the boy is.
Now seeing her sneaking up to see my child makes me so sad. I’m as confused as silk, I also want reunited with ex-wife give me less suffering because the boy was too young to have to leave his mother. However, I do not know how to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? How should I advise my mother to accept her daughter-in-law again? Hope people give me some advice.
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