After giving birth, psychological changes and negative thoughts are the problem of many women. Not only people with special circumstances, who have to work hard to take care of their children, but also the beauties in showbiz who have an abundant life, are pampered like a princess, and their families take care of them. “after this birth.
Nguyet Anh has a thought to jump down from the balcony
Nguyet Anh is a familiar face on the small screen when appearing in hit dramas like The Gate of the Sun, Doc of Love, River of Brothers, Magical Family, Han Mac Tu… In 2017, she married her husband, an Indian yoga instructor, and a year later, the two welcomed their first son, baby Nanda, born.
Nguyet Anh and her Indian husband welcomed their first child in 2018.
The actress went through a pregnancy and the “birth” was quite easy and smooth. However, as a mother in a family with many generations and different cultures, after giving birth, Nguyet Anh could not avoid the pressure in the process of raising children, even falling into a state of depression to the point of thinking. suicidal.
The Sun Gate actor shared: “I know I fall into depression. Although I try my best, sometimes the baby’s health is out of my control. If I have a fever or something, I feel stressed. To the point that when I look out onto the balcony, I think of jumping off. I have to try to push myself out of that dangerous thought because I don’t want to upset my loved ones.”
Nguyet Anh confided that there was a time when she suffered from depression after giving birth.
When asked about the Indian husband’s reaction, Nguyet Anh was honest that she shared with her husband but not deeply. Explaining this, she said: “I am a person who does not want to disturb others, including my loved ones. I think that’s my problem, if I share it, it makes people worry more, then they worry about me too. Well, in the end I don’t talk, I just share the surface, and the icebergs below me don’t share. When a problem occurs, it is my responsibility to solve it, and it is up to the people around me to solve it or not.”.
Fortunately, as her children gradually grew up and had a more stable schedule, Nguyet Anh also gradually relaxed herself and overcame this dangerous period of depression on her own.
Hai Yen Idol cried for 4 days and 4 nights
Hai Yen Idol was born in 1986, she was known when participating in the program Vietnam Idol 2007 and then Sao Mai rendezvous in 2008. In 2010 she got married and had a son. However, it was not until her son was grown that the singer shared the difficult time after giving birth.
Specifically, Hai Yen said that during 2 consecutive years after giving birth, she often went to bed at 3-4 am. Even when she sent her children to her grandmother to help, Hai Yen was haunted by the sound of children crying. Once when she was sleeping, she woke up because she heard the sound of a baby crying in her ear.
Hai Yen Idol also fell into postpartum depression due to economic pressure and appearance.
In particular, once, at night, unable to sleep, tossing in bed, her husband said: “Why are you squirming and rolling around like a worm on a bed?” Hai Yen Idol misheard as… a buffalo. So she thought that her husband called her fat, ugly, and black as a buffalo. The singer cried for 4 days and 4 nights because of this.
In another time when taking her children to get vaccinated, Hai Yen Idol was said by a nurse standing behind saying:Please give her a ride.” Hurt because she was mistaken for a pregnant woman about to give birth, Hai Yen Idol cried in the middle of the hospital. Obsessed with weight and ugliness, especially at that stage, when she did not sing, did not earn much money, made the female singer lose confidence and hate herself. The peak of depression is when her mind is too stressed, she drops her baby like a cotton ball under the mattress. When the child did not cry, she cried more than her son because she realized that she was suffering from stress and severe depression. In particular, when her parents and family offered to help her take care of her child, Hai Yen Idol disagreed for fear that others would not know how to take care of the baby.
It took 2 years after giving birth to Hai Yen to get rid of psychological instability.
To help a woman get rid of postpartum depression, according to Hai Yen Idol, the role of the husband is extremely important. Hai Yen said that in the past, her husband rarely apologized to his wife. However, now when anything happened, he also admitted his fault and took the initiative to apologize to her. That makes life less stressful for the couple.
Crystal yelled at me: “Shut up”
On October 18, 2020, singer Pha Le gave birth to her first daughter. This is boundless happiness for the singer because before that, she had suffered 3 miscarriages in a short time.
During pregnant, Crystal was always worried that there might be problems, but fortunately, Thien Y was born smoothly in the end. However, overcoming 9 months and 10 days of pregnancy and the case of “going through labor” are just the first steps in the arduous and difficult journey of motherhood. Not long ago, Pha Le shared about the unstable psychological days after giving birth to her baby Snail.
Pha Le was very happy when baby snail was born.
Pha Le said that before giving birth, she was aware that she was a person prone to depression, so from the very beginning when she was born, she always told everyone in the family to pay attention to her a little, do tricks, talk, pull her out of the room, don’t leave her alone with her children because she will surely have negative thoughts and do not dare to say anything first. And in fact, after giving birth, Pha Le wanted to leave her children with her husband no less than 3 times and leave home. When she was under pressure about breastfeeding, when she saw her baby cry, she shouted “shut up” and then rushed to hug her to comfort her.
However, after giving birth, she was so stressed that she yelled at her baby.
Fortunately, baby Snail is a docile baby and Pha Le also has a husband to share everything, has the conditions to hire a maid, so after the end of the “confinement” period, she can go out to meet friends, she has settled down. more psychological. “I myself always have to tell myself it’s okay, it’s okay, it’s just the hormonal changes, but everything is fine…“, she said.
Hai Bang wants to carry her baby far away
Hai Bang is now a mother of 3 with a full life, a good husband and good children. However, when she gave birth to her first daughter in March 2017, the female singer also experienced postpartum psychological disorder.
The most difficult time for Hai Bang was when Tue Minh was less than a month old, she cried a lot. Because she has no experience in taking care of children, she is very worried. When Tue Minh disturbed, Hai Bang did not dare to hold her because she was afraid that the baby would get used to nagging. She let the baby lie in the crib and instinctively comforted the baby, but the baby did not hold back. Finally, the poor young mother cried with her child.
When she gave birth for the first time, she did not have experience in taking care of children, so Hai Bang could not avoid psychological stress.
“About a month after giving birth, I was just hanging around in Tue Minh’s room. When my baby cried, I was very afraid that people would know that I was a mother but could not take care of and comfort him. Then I thought, should I take the baby to a place far away, where it’s just the two of us, so that no one will be bothered by the baby’s crying. Many times, I sit and watch my baby, mother cry, child cry.Hai Bang confided.
According to Hai Bang, postpartum depression is not a dangerous problem. Every mother needs to know how to get through this difficult time on her own with the help of her family. The singer revealed that when she was stressed because of taking care of her children, her husband paid more attention to his wife and daughter. Thanh Dat encourages his wife with caring gestures and even gifts of billions of cars. Hai Bang regained balance after about 2 months.
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