Meet the woman who was burned alive by her husband with gasoline, burned to 92%: “I’m afraid, it hurts so much
3 years have passed, it is like a horrible dream for Ms. Le Thi Kim Ngan (34 years old, from Phu Yen). From a person who has everything, she fell to the bottom of tragedy when her whole body was on fire because of her husband’s thought of “die together”. Escaping death after being burned by her husband with gasoline, Ngan burned 92% of her body, underwent many treatments and surgeries…, the unfortunate woman still tries to live every day for her 2 young children.
3 years full of hardships and challenges for Ngan, closing her eyes, the woman still can’t believe everything she’s been through.
A child’s love helps a mother come back from the dead…
One day in mid-April 2022, we found a run-down grade 4 house, located deep in alley 625, Mui Con Tieu hamlet, Hiep Phuoc commune, Cu Chi district, Ho Chi Minh City, where Ms. Ngan and 2 children boys (11 years old and 9 years old) are living.
Struggling to fix the guest’s clothes, Ngan took a deep breath, looking tired after many sleepless nights. Nine times on the operating table, through countless pain and torment of an unhealthy body, Ngan gradually walked, stood, and grasped everything.
A new life with many hopes has been opened for Ngan’s mother and daughter
Looking at the picture of mother and daughter together before the incident, Ngan remembers vividly the night when her husband ruthlessly poured gasoline on to burn the whole family alive, and his wife and children sacrificed their lives for debt. diseases.
“At that time, the fire on my body kept burning, I was exhausted, but I looked at my two children’s room, if I give up, the children will also die. She jumped up and asked the two children to run out, I don’t understand why she did not. very awake, when she got on the motorbike to go to the hospital, she even asked to look at her children and tell them a few things because she thought she would die. cold hands and feet…” Ngan burst into tears.
The woman was touched when recalling the horrible memory of 3 years ago
After being transferred from Phu Yen to Ho Chi Minh City for treatment, during the first 10 days, Ms. Ngan lay motionless on the hospital bed, her whole body covered with bandages. Just close your eyes, haunting the horrible night of being burned alive by your husband always appears. Painful, humiliating, sometimes Ngan just wants to die…
“I thought of my two children, also because their biological father had left at a young age, I tried to find a full new home, but who would have thought that such a thing would happen. Now that I let go, two children Who will take care of her, she only has her mother and only her mother,” Ngan confided.
Despite excruciating pain when looking at the peeling skin and sores all over her body, with some strength and faith from her two foolish children, Ngan gradually regained her hope of living, trying to overcome it. diseases. Of course, it’s not really that easy…
The image of Ngan before and after being burned alive with gasoline by her husband to “die together”
After 4 months in the hospital, Ngan was also able to go home, but all care had to depend on her 2 sons. At that time one was 8, the other was 6 years old. For the first time after the fire, Ngan limped step by step, watching her two children running to hug their mother, Ngan’s eyes suddenly flashed with hope.
“I want to live, want to be healthy again to be a support for my 2 children. The past three years have been like a nightmare, terrible. Many people ask how I overcame it, it wasn’t easy. But because child, I have to move on Once I’ve gotten over death, the time I spent fighting with my body, it’s heavy.
The pain that Ngan experienced cannot be expressed in words…
The continuous skin transplant surgery makes Ngan’s body more and more exhausted
She had surgery about 9 times already, but every time she asked for a promotion, it was very difficult to draw blood once, and she couldn’t poke the vein. She was obsessed, so every time she went to surgery, she asked to work more, cut a little here and there to make it better.
You are afraid! It hurts a lot, I’m also a stubborn type but when I go to the operating table too many times, I feel like my body is being trampled again. Look at your hands and feet, there’s nothing left.”Ms. Ngan confided.
“Your face is like that and you’re singing online…”
After being able to walk again, Ngan decided to pack her body and go to Hanoi alone to raise the hope of helping her body become more healthy. On the first day at the hospital, seeing her body reflected in the glass door, Ngan collapsed.
“At that time, I was like an old woman, thin, with no hair, some trainees ran over to help me, he called me grandma, but I was only 31 years old… Everyone looked at me with their eyes. It’s strange, but if I don’t try, who will take care of my child at home? Scratched skin, I don’t remember how many times I cried, now like this, I’m very lucky.”Ms. Ngan confided.
Her 2 sons are the driving force for Ngan to live…
To start a new life, temporarily forgetting all the terrible memories that happened, in the New Year 2020, Ngan’s mother and daughter decided to leave Phu Yen to enter Ho Chi Minh City. At first, Ngan applied for a job at a sewing factory near her home, because the weather was hot and the scars made her body unbearable. After a month, she asked to receive goods to sew at home, because she struggled to feed 3 mouths, she started selling more goods online.
Seeing many people on Facebook singing and advertising sales, Ngan also invited a few blind friends to sing, livestream, and advertise products. Those who love, buy support, those who are not satisfied, leave comments: “With your face like that, you go online to sing…”making Ngan angry.
Online orders, sewing sessions… are the source of life for the mother and daughter
“Some people don’t sympathize with my appearance, they give me bitter words, I’m very hurt. But how can I still laugh, because I need to make a living to raise my children.
I am also a human being, hearing such words, how can I not think, be sad. But after all, seeing her two children grow up every day, she is wrapped around her, I’m happy.
I used to fall to the bottom of society, no money, no looks, but in return, I still have 2 children, alive to see them grow up every day. When I think about it, I think I’m still luckier than many people. Because many of them have no chance to live, she agrees and chooses for herself a peaceful way of life, it’s like the name she calls herself: Ngan An Yen.
Despite going through many bitterness, the woman is still strong, struggling with a steel spirit: For her children!
A living life has never been easy for Ms. Ngan, especially in an unhealthy body
Returning to Ho Chi Minh City after more than half a year in the countryside to avoid the Covid-19 epidemic, Ngan’s mother and daughter were busy for a new life. Currently, Ngan’s first child is 11 years old, in 6th grade, her youngest is also in 4th grade. Compared with friends of the same age, the two children also understand and love their mother more.
In the morning, Ngan gets up early to prepare breakfast, usually instant noodles or fried rice, and then drives her two children to school. As for housework, the mother and daughter divide themselves among themselves. Although their mother did not allow them to go to extra school, both of Ngan’s sons tried their best, trying to study better every day to make their mother happy.
“Compared to other children of the same age, her two older children are already very good, I don’t expect her to do well in school and become someone big, I just hope that her son will live a decent life.
Two children are gradually growing up, that is the happiest thing that Ngan has
I mean, now I’m also under a lot of pressure, hundreds of things to spend every month, it’s on me. People have enough wives and husbands and are still sluggish, this is only me, my body is not as healthy as other people, so I can only try that day or that day. If she can afford to take care of everything, after finishing high school, she will send her children to vocational training. You know your illness…”, After saying that, Ngan looked at the alley and sighed.
3 years have passed, but the physical and mental wounds are still there, Ngan doesn’t know how much longer she can hold on when the pain and shortness of breath often appear. But no matter what: “I have to live because I have two children”!
Hopefully in the coming days, Ngan’s mother and daughter’s life will be less miserable. Wish the strong woman will really have happiness and peace after a long day of suffering in the past, illness…
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