Even scolding his wife for spending 30 million a month, until she looked at the old notebook in the drawer,
Of husband and wife is the most important rule of married life. However, many husbands use the rights of those who directly make the economy to disregard and direct their wives, leading to increasingly tense family conflicts.
Having made such a mistake, recently a husband named facebook TS went to social networks to share his story as follows:
“Get married 5 years, my wife gave birth to 2 children in a row. Because I want my children to be well taken care of, I decided to let my wife quit her job to stay at home to take care of the children, raise the family, and carry on my economic burden. In addition to working at the company, I also received other jobs outside, so I also earned. On average, my monthly income is about 25 to 30 million, of which I give my wife 20 million to spend, I keep the rest for travel, coffee customers.
Before, I quite believed that my wife had just given all the finances to my wife to manage like that. Usually, my wife will only spend 2/3 of the money that her husband gives, and keep 1/3 to accumulate reserves. In general, taking care of the economy alone is also hard, but in exchange for seeing my wife taking care of children, taking care of the house, good internal and external relations, I feel more secure to focus on my career, so even though I work hard, I still try my best.“.
However, S. said, there was a time when his work had problems, his income decreased while his wife’s expenses were somewhat unstable. No matter how much money her husband gives, it’s even negative. This makes him feel pressured, especially when his wife can’t give a clear reason. Because of that, he and his wife began to have financial conflicts.
“In the past, my wife almost never spent all the money her husband gave her. Yet she spent as much time as she spent. One month she even hid from me to borrow money from friends. When it came to my ears, I asked my wife to avoid saying: ‘I have a problem. Next month, I will rebalance, save more money to repay people’s debts’…”.
S. said that he was actually not a stork person, calculating money with his wife, but at the right time when the business was difficult but his wife kept eating and spending “wasting her life”, so he couldn’t avoid a fever. intestine. In S.’s heart, he suspected that his wife might hide money for her own fund or for her family to spend so much, but when he asked his wife, he refused to say that the goal was for the family.
“At the beginning of last month, I gave my wife 30 million, but before the end of the month I asked my wife and she said there was no more. Annoyed, I scolded my wife and slapped her, angry husband and wife no one talked to anyone. That night, my wife went to the children’s room to sleep, and I stayed in the office.
Tossed and hard to sleep at night, I went to the couple’s room and rummaged through the drawers to see if my wife had hidden any black funds or red funds. Looking for a while, I only found a small notebook my wife left under the mat at the bedside.
It is her spending notebook, in which my wife’s spending items are very specific, from the package of toothpicks to the vegetables she clearly records. But I noticed that in that notebook, there is not a single item that my wife spends on herself from clothes and cosmetics. All of them focus on buying food and clothes for their husband and children. In addition, for the past few months, there has been an additional spending goal, which is medicine to treat my mother’s illness.
It turned out that my mother in the countryside just discovered that she had type 3 diabetes because she knew I had to work hard to take care of my family’s finances, so she hid it from her husband, quietly taking care of her husband’s medicine to treat her. poor like that. She said that when my work is less stressful, she will tell me. However, I suspect that you hid from your husband to set up a self-defense fund.”.
S. said, after that, he felt ashamed and extremely sorry for his wife. Since then, he completely changed his mind, wholeheartedly believed and found ways to compensate for his wife’s losses.
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