Girlfriend used to be ‘sugar baby’

I’m the type of girl who has an economy, is beautiful, works hard, except for the fact that she doesn’t like doing housework. I can help her with cooking, cleaning, both will hire someone to do if they get married later. We are all busy, we don’t have time to do housework. You and I trust each other, tell each other everything. I am 27 years old, my girlfriend is 31 years old.

She told me that before she met me, she had an affair with a married man, 20 years older than her. The other person has money, so he takes care of his appearance and doesn’t look too old for me. I consider him good. When the two of them stopped going back and forth, because he wanted to hold on, he still transferred money to me on holidays, birthdays… I told him he did it himself, but I blocked all contact. She also showed me a bank message telling him to transfer money.

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I said that at first, I found it very suitable to talk to him, like someone I used to know, so I was drawn in. He gave me real money but that was not the main reason for me to get used to it, because I still worked for money and didn’t need a support person. I don’t know how much she fell in love with him, despite all the moral barriers, plus she really hated the third person. Even me, she doesn’t like me talking to female colleagues who seem close. I very limited relationships with women because I know she is sensitive.

I keep being haunted by this, uncomfortable. What should I do?

King

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