I have been the victim of many narcissists

They will convey messages to me like: “I’m so lucky to have your help”, “I did it for you”. They always make me feel sad, frustrated, scared, bullied, forced to accept myself as worthless or never good enough. Almost half my life of searching, I finally discovered that what I lacked is knowledge.

Have you heard of terms like manipulation, covert aggression, narcissism or flying monkey? It was only when I learned these things that a picture of chaos and confusion loomed in front of me. I had enough answers to every problem, every relationship, and exactly why they did it. position. It’s as simple as a math formula. The West has been talking about this knowledge in newspapers and media for hundreds of years, so why doesn’t the East know about it, or so few people know about it?

Only when I dig deep, I understand how important it is. Why are most people with depression not completely cured by Vietnamese psychologists? Because they were never given answers to the reasons and origins of the trauma. The sources of depression (such as parents, spouse, co-workers) are still around, how to cure depression? Why are so many of you like me, despite being fully educated, still have difficulty in making important decisions regarding your feelings and have to seek help from outsiders? ? Why do we always tend to worship narcissists with all sorts of manipulative tricks, expecting them to preach human morality and lead us to their glorious success? In the end, we will become narcissists of the new generation, alone on the throne of fame but never having happiness and peace of mind.

>> I have to find someone who loves me more than myself

We lack the knowledge to be able to see the truth of everything, to be able to distinguish right from wrong, left and right. We are dazzled by sweet and insulting words, by their mixed good and bad days, by their perfect social and real image that only you vaguely see. Your intuition and weak inner voice cannot be strong enough to defeat the powerful voices of hundreds or thousands of people. You alone cannot overthrow the social prejudice that favors men and despises women, clearly defining red lines between husband and wife, between upper and lower. You are born in any level, of course, you will enjoy the privileges or be responsible for that level. As long as we have the intention to protest, we, the bold and bold women, are wrong from the very beginning. No matter how hard you try, in their eyes, you are never good enough and don’t deserve to be loved and respected.

Narcissists never change and the problem is always with the other person, never with them. The only way to cure this fast-spreading disease is to educate the victims of narcissists, so that they know how to free themselves, as I and so many relatives and friends have done during this time. past time. We have taught ourselves to develop mentally, so we have the courage to confidently let go of what we need to let go of and keep what we need to keep. We’re working hard not to rewrite our narcissistic genealogy for generations to come. Hopefully, through this suggestion, you will pay attention and really learn about the knowledge of narcissism. Wish you always keep the motivation to study so that you can really solve your own problems.

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