The man who shared a room with his mother for 28 years and a touching story

In the midst of the 34-degree hot weather, in a pickup truck parked under a tree, an old woman with silver hair kept looking at the man selling cakes. That man also kept his eyes on the car because the person sitting in it was his mother.

At 50 years old, Mr. Cao Gia Nhi is still single, living and taking care of his mother with Parkinson’s disease for 28 years.

“My mother can’t leave me even for a moment. Wherever I am, she will be there. As long as I can help her, I will persevere in working hard. This is not something to do but to do, it’s that. is the filial piety that children give to their parents,” said Cao.

One afternoon 28 years ago, his mother Gao, 45 years old, living in Zhejiang (China) was eating rice when her chopsticks hand trembled, uncontrollably. The doctor diagnosed her with Parkinson’s disease. After that, her family took her to many places for medical treatment in the hope of curing her illness.

For the first 15 years, her condition was still manageable with medication. But after that, the situation got worse day by day. To treat his mother’s illness, Mr. Cao had to spend a large amount of money, taking care of the monthly medical expenses. That’s the money he borrowed everywhere to get.

“In the eyes of others, my mother is a burden, but for me it is the filial piety I want to show her. Everyone will grow old, as long as I’m here, I will try my best to take care of her. good, making her feel as comfortable as possible,” Cao Gia Nhi shared.

Mr. Cao wakes up at 6 am every day. The first thing he did was check on his mother’s condition, change her diaper and then go to the kitchen to make breakfast. The 10 square meter room is the bedroom of mother and daughter. He made two beds for himself and for his mother. His mother’s bed was placed close to the window, one side was fitted with a rail to prevent her from falling. He lay next to him to take care of his mother every day. For the past 28 years, Cao Gia Er has slept in the same room as his mother. So far, he has not been married.

Parkinson’s disease is a disease that causes difficulty swallowing, so Cao’s mother has been unable to eat rice for many years, but has to drink liquid foods. He worked hard to cook suitable dishes and feed his mother. After Mom finished breakfast, he helped her to the bathroom to help her pee.

“In the early stages, my mother could walk with crutches, but her condition got worse and worse, her toes were bent and could not be extended. She could not walk at all,” Mr. Cao said. .

“I never thought of giving up even when I felt the most helpless. Looking at my mother, I had to be even stronger because her only support was me,” Cao said.

Although he is 50 years old, he has never thought of getting married. He knows that, in addition to the difficult economic situation, the cramped house, the illness of his mother is a big obstacle to his marriage. His mother often encouraged her son to find a life partner because he was worried that when he left, his son was left alone. Every time he heard his mother say that, he wanted to cry with emotion. However, he is still determined not to get married to focus on taking care of his mother.

During the past many years, he was not only a boy but also a girl, doing everything from bathing, cutting hair, changing diapers… helping his mother.

After his story was shared, many people were moved and admired his filial piety. A son like him is really rare and hard to find.

Tu Linh (According to Sohu)