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If you want your child to grow up to be successful, parents should often say these 4 sentences!

In the past, IQ was considered an important factor determining a person’s success, especially in the field of research and learning. People with high IQ often study well, have initiative, acumen in learning, we often call them “book smart”.

But today, according to the development trend of society, experts say that it is no longer the “guideline” that determines success in life. Instead, it is only one part of a chain of success factors, and “book smart” must be combined with a myriad of other factors, including “street smarts”.

Emotional intelligence (also known as EQ or “street intelligence”) has become an important factor today because it has a strong impact on many fields, especially in business. Many companies now require employees to attend emotional intelligence training courses, using the EQ test as part of the hiring process. The study also found that people with strong leadership potential often have high EQ, so EQ becomes an important factor that business leaders and managers must have.

High EQ helps children confidently develop communication skills, easily get along in groups, connect with people around, expand relationships. It is this sociability and adaptability that will help children create a solid foundation to maintain good relationships for study and career later.

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Bai Yansong – he is currently a China news commentator, host and journalist for China Central Television. Photo: NetEase

Fortunately, compared to IQ, EQ can be improved through practice and real life experience. As the most famous host of CCTV – China Central Television, Bai Yansong emphasized: If parents regularly apply the following 4 sentences to communicate with their children, the father-father relationship Mother-child is not only bonded, but also helps improve children’s EQ.

4 sentences parents should say often to improve their child’s EQ

1. “What do you think about this matter, I want to hear your opinion”

For example, when a child asks, “Dad, where are we going to spend the weekend?” – Parents should answer “Where do you think our family should go? I want to hear your opinion first.”

This is to practice children’s logical thinking and expression skills. When parents say this sentence, children will no longer passively follow their parents’ requests, but will actively think for themselves, begin to arrange words in their heads, and express their own ideas and views.

Over time, parents will find that their children become more confident and assertive, and that they also know how to communicate with others and express their thoughts.

    2. “Darling, it’s all up to you!”

Parents let children make their own decisions about small things within their reach. Except for things that need an adult’s opinion or that issue is beyond the child’s ability, parents should guide, give advice and create opportunities for children to express their opinions.

For example, when a child says to a parent, “Mom, can I buy this box of candy with my pocket money?”, instead of saying “no,” parents should say, “Okay, it’s up to you to decide. I mean, it’s my money.”

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Saying “Son, it’s all up to you!” Say often. With children, they will feel that their parents respect them and their existence is valuable. Gradually, children’s confidence, sense of responsibility, independence will be cultivated and improved.

3. “We will set a rule for this and stick to it together”

There are times, parents always feel helpless because of reminders, but children still “pour water on potato leaves”, completely ignoring their parents’ words. Eventually the parent-child relationship becomes strained.

For example, by “plugging in” to the phone, although parents remind their children many times, not to play with the phone too much, they still “disappear”. At this point, parents should say to their children: “Let’s set a rule for using smartphones at home, let’s abide by that rule!”.

The effectiveness of such a method of communication is certainly 10,000 times better than hitting and yelling.

Parents’ words are children’s future. Therefore, parents need to pay more attention to every word that they say in front of their children. Communicating with children is also an art, parents need to use reasonable and appropriate language if they want to improve their children’s EQ.

4. “Parents love you, but don’t want you to behave like this…”

    The old saying “What a child is, depends on the ‘tongue’ of its parents”, this is not a joke.

    In fact, an unintentional joke or a harsh scolding from a parent towards a child can affect their character later on.

    Parents who often say things like “You’re so bad”, “Don’t do that…”, will make your child really think he’s such an incompetent person. Over time, children will form thoughts of not wanting to strive, inferiority complex thinking that they are incompetent and useless.

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    For example, if you find out that your child is lying, say to the child: “I love you very much, but I don’t like lying.”

    In this way, children have just realized their mistake, but at the same time know that their parents do not hate them, so they find ways to correct their mistakes or listen to their parents’ teachings to avoid repeating the same mistake next time. Parents absolutely must not use harsh scolding for their children.

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