Every time he gets angry at his wife, he meets his ex-lover

We have been husband and wife for 10 years, but my husband still has not forgotten that woman.

I love and trust my husband, so when I know that every time my husband and I argue, he turns to his ex-lover, I feel pain and failure.

Just last week, just because of a trivial matter, but my husband was angry. Up to now, her husband has always been the one to be angry, to cause trouble, sometimes just for nothing. Like when I went to a meeting, put my phone on silent mode, my husband called but I didn’t answer the phone, he would make a fuss and then get angry. Each time, the husband slept separately.

I think I’m somewhat wrong, thinking about my children, thinking about stopping counting my husband like that, I try to make sacrifices to keep my family safe, hold on a little bit, go into the water to do good for the family to be happy.

Husband always makes excuses to be angry at his wife and then goes to see his ex – Illustration

How many times I got angry, so many times I was the one who did good, my husband never went to the water to beg his wife, nor did he admit it was wrong.

Yesterday, while my husband was taking a shower, he had a text message on his phone, I happened to see it. Curious, I opened it up. The person who texted him was Loan, his ex-lover. “Yesterday was very happy. I will always remember the moment with you. I will always love you”, I was stunned by Loan’s message.

This is the first time I touch my husband’s phone, because I always think that everyone needs their own space. I keep reading old messages.

My husband texted Loan, saying that if only time could go back, he wouldn’t be like the old days. He will fight to the end to get Loan. He also texted “Your image is forever in my heart”. And, through the messages, I discovered that, every time he was angry with his wife, he would go to Loan. He also lied about going on a business trip to take her to Nha Trang, Phu Quoc as a real couple. At first, he only came to see her when he and his wife were angry, then he found an excuse to be angry at his wife to see the old man more.

I don’t have the courage to read more, maybe he will tell Loan that “I don’t love my wife”. I know it’s true, but I try to deny it, because it makes me numb.

In every message with my ex, my husband is happy and happy. He gave her sweet words of affection. He asked her if she had eaten, he cared whether she was happy or sad today, cared about each outfit she wore and the color of her lipstick. Those are the things you never did for me.

He never asked me if I was happy or sad, nor did he know what I was going through. He never once held a baby to let me sleep or help me take care of the baby, let alone take care of me. My husband doesn’t even notice or know what I like. He has never given me a present for a holiday or a wedding anniversary. He just needs me to be his wife, a wife who loves her husband, loves her husband’s family, a devoted wife, takes care of her husband with every shirt, pants, every meal, a wife who sacrifices herself for her husband for the sake of her husband. children, a wife who always considers her husband as the whole world.

I have no place in my husband’s heart for 10 years – Illustration

In 10 years of husband and wife, the husband has never said he loves me. Sometimes I asked if he didn’t know if he loved me, my husband was grumpy, that if he didn’t love me, who would he love, that if he didn’t love me, why would he marry me? At that time, I was angry, thinking he would hug me and cuddle me, but no, he didn’t care.

I still think that my husband is not emotional, but I don’t know that he just doesn’t care about me. And until now I know that, I am just the person who filled the void in his heart for the past 10 years, 10 years he has not stopped loving the old man. That day, he married me just because his ex left to get married. Do you love me.

For a long time, I always thought about my family and children. And because I love him, I don’t want to ruin my family just because of trivial things, so I gave up my ego, sometimes even my self-respect. And yet… I’m just the poor third person. 10 years ago, I have no place in your heart.

Well, there’s nothing to regret. Tomorrow, I file for divorce.

According to Women in Ho Chi Minh City