Girlfriends ‘sacrifice’ love to develop themselves

I am 28 years old, living with my family in Ho Chi Minh City. His girlfriend is three years younger, born in the Central region, working in Ho Chi Minh City. We met and got to know each other for five months, we’ve been in love for three years. Until the day you said goodbye, I still haven’t stopped thinking about this love story. The time I loved you was very happy and peaceful. During that time, we always spent time together. Because of their similar personalities and went to the same university, the two share many things in life.

I have graduated and been working for more than five years. In the first few days of working with a salary of 7 million VND, now more than 20 million VND, I have saved 1.2 billion VND from salary and other sources of income. In addition, I also partially help my parents to remodel the house. I think that I will try, work hard to accumulate, get married, the two will have money to take care of family life. You are always there to encourage and support me, giving me strength and motivation to strive to achieve my goals in life.

>> My girlfriend left me to love my people

When we started getting to know each other, I was about to graduate from school and apply for a job. I feel very sorry for her because I see that she has the qualities I look for in a future wife. She is obedient, polite, understanding, hard-working and has sincere feelings for me. Your life is harder than mine, so I love you more and want to be taken care of and worried about. Over the years together, I have always loved and shared your difficulties in life. When I go to work, I buy a scooter and send it back to my hometown for my parents to use. I partially support her when buying a new car.

I study English and other programs; I always support, worry, help because I want to take care of you. I shared that studying more to improve my knowledge, hope to have a better job in the future. Every weekend, I take her to the supermarket, always telling her to eat well and avoid unhealthy foods. Everything I do is out of sincere love for you. The month of love is so sweet, we are immersed in the happiness that love brings.

This relationship is always nurtured by us because we are determined to get married. We always go to each other’s house to play, I live with my sister’s family. Fortunately, both sides of the family support them. The two families talked about their future. I still remember vividly the radiant faces of me and you on that day.

>> My girlfriend left me to run after my married boss

When Ho Chi Minh City is apart, we have to be far away from each other. The two of them just called and texted on their birthdays, hoping to see each other as soon as possible. However, two months later (the day I went to work at the office), she texted: “I don’t feel enthusiastic enough in this love story anymore. I want to develop myself more, go to school, work and have an idea. intend to study abroad, do not want to waste your time”. When I asked, she did not have any specific intentions for studying abroad where, when, and how. I was so shocked, I don’t understand why you gave such a reason.

Over three years of love, I have never talked about studying abroad. Maybe, when she had these thoughts, she could wait to see me to explain and the two of us came up with the best solution, but she did not make such a choice, decided on her own and just informed. A month later, we met to talk. I want to know what makes you want to end this relationship. When we met, she and I were very sad, she only cried when she heard my confession. She said there was a time when she was not strong enough, consistent with her choice, she still loves and loves me. Only when we’re apart, do I have the strength to do that.

She knows that me and my family have moved to a new house and bought me a congratulatory gift. I know you still love and think about my family. However, I was still resolute with my choice, giving up so much affection, love and memories of the two of us. When my family heard about it, they also called to ask, but I just kept quiet. Writing here, I have made my own decision. Thank you everyone for listening to me.

Decided

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