Unable to cope with her husband’s adultery

The content is asking, confiding about things in life, there is a passage where he talks about love literature. I made a fuss, saying that if I fell in love with someone else, I would release him and raise my own children. I belong to the type of independent woman, marrying him for love, not for material things. After the wedding, I helped him a lot, and the couple built a good career and fortune.

After that, I applied and asked him to sign. Property I do not dispute and will raise children well. The next day he didn’t dare go to work because he was afraid I would do something foolish, like watch over me. I called the other woman, she texted me apologizing and admitting that because she trusted my husband, she texted back and forth and it was wrong to do so, promising to stop. Her husband confessed to having sex with her after marrying me. In addition, I have been in love with him since high school and married him when I was 20 years old. You and I are each other’s first.

>> Bored of my husband, I had an affair with my ex

Husband knelt down begging me to forgive him for his mistake, he said it was a dirty past he didn’t want to remember. Now that I have found the message, he wants to tell the truth he has hidden for the past seven years, he goes to coffee with his ex once or twice a year and that happens. I temporarily believe because husband and wife work close to each other and know each other’s schedules. In addition, he didn’t play or drink much, went home from work to take care of his children, so in those years I completely trusted him. I’m not the type of woman to trust easily, but I find him very good to his family. During the years we lived together, he was a good husband, helping me with housework and taking care of children. We often travel together, he scheduled my birthday at the place of travel, very thoughtful.

My heart is full of thoughts. After a year, I used some junk sims to test him, he texted the other girl that everyone has made mistakes in the past, if they are wrong, they have to fix it, don’t contact him anymore. In fact, my wife and I do not hide any passwords, we can freely use each other’s accounts. Once, my husband and I got into a fight because I remembered the old story and became bitter, he lost control of his phone, smashing things, something that in all these years of living together has never happened. I went crazy asking for a divorce because I couldn’t forget the old story. I am not noble to forgive and choose to leave. He begged again, used all means to make me happy, wrote a pledge, apologized, came home on time, was kind to me. He asked for a chance to redo his life after that mistake, he didn’t want to lose me and the baby, he loved him very much.

>> My wife quietly left when she found out that I was having an affair with my ex

After a while, I also calmed down, still loving my husband and taking care of him. I don’t want to remember the past, but it’s hard to understand in my heart. I know that since then, a year has passed, my husband has completely stopped with his old love, and I have not given up to completely trust him again. About that woman, I don’t get jealous because my husband said it happened two or three years ago, he also knows it’s wrong and wants to stop. The other also said she still loves my husband, it was a love from high school, but now I know she promised to stop and apologized to me. I didn’t curse, didn’t insult that woman, just talked and she cried, saying that she hurt me.

I feel that I am too calm with everything, but the wound in my heart has not yet healed. I can’t face that wrong frankly, want to avoid it because when I remember it, it hurts so much. What should I do? Would you like to share with me?

Fate

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