When I saw my son taking his boyfriend home for the first time, my mother asked me a question that made me cry all my tears-Young

My parents have always loved and respected their daughter’s decision. This time I thought they would agree to my marriage as long as I was happy. However, when I brought my boyfriend home, as soon as I saw it, my mother asked a question that made me cry all my tears.

I was in pain and questioned my parents, but my parents still refused to accept my son-in-law (Artwork)

At the same age as me, all of you got married early, but because I was busy studying, I had not had a lover until I graduated from school and worked for 2 years. My parents were impatient when I never brought my boyfriend home. My parents have always loved and respected their daughter’s decision. This time I thought they would agree to my marriage as long as I was happy. However, when I brought my boyfriend home, as soon as I saw it, my mother asked a question that made me cry all my tears.

My current lover is a man 20 years older than me, who is a branch manager for a foreign company. He, like me, belongs to the category of “sorry thanks to his ability” because he is so busy striving for his career that he doesn’t pay attention to family matters. We got to know each other and fell in love thanks to the cooperation between the two companies. In the times the two sides meet, I am usually present.

After going back and forth for a while, he took the initiative to connect with me. Although I know that he is much older than me, I still agree because I have met many couples with a large age difference. Being with you, I feel loved and protected a lot. We both confirmed this love story and decided to come out and ask for marriage.

I thought my parents would definitely be happy because their daughter finally had a lover and decided to get married. Last Sunday, I took my boyfriend home to meet the family. I’m sure my parents would agree immediately. However, as soon as I saw my boyfriend, my mother was so angry that she blushed.

When I introduced myself, my mother asked a question that shocked me deeply: “Do you have a lack of money at home, why do you have to love someone twice your age?” Hearing my mother’s words, my boyfriend was stunned and stood frozen in place. Although I argued, saying that we truly love each other, age is not important, moreover he is also a person with a stable career, never married, my mother still firmly disagreed.

Although we stayed at home, my mother soon left to a neighbor’s house. My father, out of courtesy, still welcomed him and drank a few beers with his daughter’s boyfriend. However, he also said frankly during the meal that he did not accept our relationship. My father said, he did not want his son-in-law to be on the same level as friends when my father was just over 3 years old, and my mother was 1 year older than him. Having such a son-in-law, they are difficult to talk to and hope you stop thinking about coming to me so that both of you don’t have to suffer later.

I was adamant against what my father said because the time I spent with him, I found him to be a very good man. If it’s just because of our age, it’s not worth it. Saying goodbye to his boyfriend, he sadly told me that he might have to stop because he didn’t want me to be awkward. I was in pain and questioned my parents, but my parents were still adamant that their son-in-law was too old. They say this is all for my future.

For a week now, we met face to face without daring to face to face. My boyfriend also feels thinner than before. He said because my mother’s words and the family’s objection made him think a lot. And I cried all week because I didn’t know how to make my parents accept my love story anymore. Should I listen to my parents?