My boyfriend wants me to be his bride

My boyfriend and I have known each other for seven years. I am 27 years old, he is 29 years old. Each person earns about 30 million VND per month, living in Saigon. Recently, he proposed to me, I quickly agreed because we were both of age. He wants me to be his bride. As for my point of view: Getting married is when you become an adult, you need to leave your family, be independent in a small family, do not ask for help from your elderly parents. Also, why can’t men take care of their parents while women have to leave their parents, bring rice to invite their home country, and throw away nearly 20 years of birth merits of their biological parents.

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I made my point clear to my boyfriend. He insisted: “A daughter who gets married has to follow her husband. It’s not because she has a reputation for having a husband, but she stays at her parents’ house. My friends and relatives all get married and live with her husband’s house. Why should you do something different? they”. I asked him: “I have parents, so do you. I think I should live separately to take care of my parents on both sides.” He felt that I was unfilial and selfish, and I found him very patriarchal. I have accumulated three billion dong, if not enough to buy a house, I can rent a house without asking anyone, but he refuses. Should I postpone this marriage? Are you conservative or am I narrow-minded? Hope you consulting help.

Flower

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