Should I choose the one I love or the one I love?

Currently I have two subjects pursuing. Both of you have stable jobs, decent character, and love me sincerely.

I’m wondering who to choose friend advise, you should choose someone who loves you more, they will be happy, because they love you, people will be tolerant, generous, ready to accept challenges and forgive their mistakes.

On the contrary, if you love the person you love more, you will suffer more, always have to pamper them, don’t want to (don’t dare) offend them, ready to take a loss on yourself.

Should I decide on your advice?

Truong Thu Huyen (Ha Tinh)

Dear Thu Huyen,

Your friends’ analysis is right, but not enough. Love is a selfless sacrifice for the one you love, so there are girls who like to be cared for, spoiled and sacrificed for their lover.

For them, seeing the person they love happy is satisfying, they are happy with joy, sharing sadness with their lover, that’s enough.

Love is from two sides, must be the harmony of two souls, two hearts. So, if you love someone just because they love you is selfish, or just because you love them is stupid.

Wishing you alertness and intelligence to know if the beats of two hearts are in sync? Similar, but not exactly the same (it won’t happen). Moreover, when you are in love, “hundreds of deviations will be equal” so you can rest assured.

According to Vietnamese Women