Hearing his son tell his wife about not cooking, the mother-in-law went to the house to “fix” the bride
No matter how tolerant and patient women are, there are certain limits. In particular, no one can accept to sacrifice themselves forever without being respected by the other party. Like the share of a young wife named M. in the story below, for example.
M. said: “My husband is an only child, he has been pampered by his parents since he was a child, so when he is married, he still lives alone and is very irresponsible. He is used to being served by his mother, after marriage By default, my wife has to take care of me the same way. When he came home from work, he was glued to his phone playing video games, when his wife brought the rice up, he had to call before going out to eat. So, although I just gave birth to a baby, it was as hard as taking care of two young children, because my husband did not help his wife, even making it harder for me.
Even so, when he was angry with his wife, he got in the car and went to his grandfather’s house. Mother-in-law I don’t live with my children, so sometimes I don’t know the bottom line of things. Seeing her son reproach, say something bad about his wife, she called to talk to me. She also did not rebuke or scold her daughter-in-law, but her voice was not happy and advised me to be a wife to be humble, so I became even more stressed.”
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M. confided that, marrying a husband who was too heartless and living alone did not know how to love his wife, so her married life was a burden, she always found herself lonely because her husband was like an outsider, no family responsibilities. Not only that, he is still immature in thought, constantly letting his married life affect the spirit of his parents, making M. in the middle even more awkward.
M. said: “More than a week ago, I was angry with my husband, so I didn’t cook, let him manage on his own, if he could, he would eat if he couldn’t, then the mother and daughter ordered food from outside. I don’t have a wife to cook for me, my husband gets bored when he eats at the restaurant, then he comes back to eat shrimp noodles. For 3 days, I let him eat instant noodles like that. After he took a picture of the bowl of noodles and posted it on Facebook, sharing that it had been 3 days since his wife let him slurp noodles. Her mother-in-law read her son’s status and immediately took a taxi to her house to correct her daughter-in-law.
However, when I went to the place, I saw her face pale, emaciated, on the table with a large medicine bag to know that the strawberry was sick. She quickly asked me why I was sick, but didn’t tell her to come and help.
That day was the 4th day I had a cold, the fever was gone, but I was still tired. She stayed to see that the bride was sick, but she still worked all the time, from taking care of the children to washing and cleaning, and did not get any rest, so she impatiently said: ‘You must rest well if you are sick. But you know that when you’re sick, T. still hangs out like this?’.
On the same day, witnessing her daughter-in-law having such a hard time, she was so sad that she kept urging me to lie down so she could help. My husband didn’t come back until 8pm, she asked: ‘Where are you going now?’. He closed his mouth: ‘There’s no food to eat when you come back’.
He said in a sullen voice like telling his wife to his mother, who expected her to blush and shout: ‘If you want to eat, roll up your hands and do it. If your wife is sick, you don’t take care of them, but you still want to be served? You are a man, you have broad shoulders, you have no arms and legs, but you keep forcing your wife to serve you. I came here today to see how hard his wife is, and how irresponsible he lives. Now I told your wife, if you don’t help her with the housework, I will take her mother and child over there to live with her parents, let her live alone..
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M. said that her husband used to be pampered by her mother but was also afraid of her mother because she said she did and never said two words. Since that day, almost every day her mother-in-law also came to supervise and urge her son to do housework with his wife, so he did not dare to avoid work. Moreover, if he did it directly, he would understand the hardships M. had to shoulder from the day he became his wife, and since then, the couple’s feelings have gone up. In particular, through this story, M. learned more about her mother-in-law, seeing that she lived fairly, loved her daughter-in-law like a son, which made her appreciate and respect her more.
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